ICaughtFire
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there's this girl i am flirting with and usually when we talk she will ask me how was my day, and i cant think of a funny reply to that, any help guys?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How do you answer this??
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
girl: "how is your day" (or something like that)
you: "well, it was going pretty good, but then i had to hang with you" or "it was ok, but then i got asked this really dumb question 'how was your day' or somethibg like that"
i know it sounds weak in writing, and not very nice, but if you say it right it should work (or at least it did for me).
you: "well, it was going pretty good, but then i had to hang with you" or "it was ok, but then i got asked this really dumb question 'how was your day' or somethibg like that"
i know it sounds weak in writing, and not very nice, but if you say it right it should work (or at least it did for me).
ICaughtFire
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lol that's good idea, i like the second one
TheGotDamnHNiC
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why do yall always go for putting women down on here?
i love making women feel good and smile...and i don't mean that in a simp ass way.
say "sh!t, it was good, but doing something with you later will make it better." or "let me tell you over the phone" or "lets talk about it over lunch" ... if you aren't with her yet..if you are..just say how it went
i love making women feel good and smile...and i don't mean that in a simp ass way.
say "sh!t, it was good, but doing something with you later will make it better." or "let me tell you over the phone" or "lets talk about it over lunch" ... if you aren't with her yet..if you are..just say how it went
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
NoNickname
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Is it too nice to answer "well, it was going pretty bad, but when you asked me, I'm better", or something like that?
RustyMatin
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Just start a conversation. You don't have to have something scripted, saying that it was fine and asking her works well. Just go with the flow and don't force everything. Read the bible and these kinds of questions go away because you realize that little lines like this are trivial and its your "Inner Game" that matters. Focus on getting your confidence up, because when you're confident, you know it doesn't really matter in the end what you say to that question becuase she will like you anyway.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
TheGotDamnHNiC
Don Juan
yeah right...