ICaughtFire
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there's this girl i am flirting with and usually when we talk she will ask me how was my day, and i cant think of a funny reply to that, any help guys?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How do you answer this??
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
girl: "how is your day" (or something like that)
you: "well, it was going pretty good, but then i had to hang with you" or "it was ok, but then i got asked this really dumb question 'how was your day' or somethibg like that"
i know it sounds weak in writing, and not very nice, but if you say it right it should work (or at least it did for me).
you: "well, it was going pretty good, but then i had to hang with you" or "it was ok, but then i got asked this really dumb question 'how was your day' or somethibg like that"
i know it sounds weak in writing, and not very nice, but if you say it right it should work (or at least it did for me).
ICaughtFire
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lol that's good idea, i like the second one
TheGotDamnHNiC
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why do yall always go for putting women down on here?
i love making women feel good and smile...and i don't mean that in a simp ass way.
say "sh!t, it was good, but doing something with you later will make it better." or "let me tell you over the phone" or "lets talk about it over lunch" ... if you aren't with her yet..if you are..just say how it went
i love making women feel good and smile...and i don't mean that in a simp ass way.
say "sh!t, it was good, but doing something with you later will make it better." or "let me tell you over the phone" or "lets talk about it over lunch" ... if you aren't with her yet..if you are..just say how it went
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
NoNickname
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Is it too nice to answer "well, it was going pretty bad, but when you asked me, I'm better", or something like that?
RustyMatin
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Just start a conversation. You don't have to have something scripted, saying that it was fine and asking her works well. Just go with the flow and don't force everything. Read the bible and these kinds of questions go away because you realize that little lines like this are trivial and its your "Inner Game" that matters. Focus on getting your confidence up, because when you're confident, you know it doesn't really matter in the end what you say to that question becuase she will like you anyway.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
TheGotDamnHNiC
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yeah right...