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Don Juan
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there's this girl i am flirting with and usually when we talk she will ask me how was my day, and i cant think of a funny reply to that, any help guys?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Is it too nice to answer "well, it was going pretty bad, but when you asked me, I'm better", or something like that?Originally posted by chill
girl: "how is your day" (or something like that)
you: "well, it was going pretty good, but then i had to hang with you" or "it was ok, but then i got asked this really dumb question 'how was your day' or somethibg like that"
i know it sounds weak in writing, and not very nice, but if you say it right it should work (or at least it did for me).
If you say it like something funny than its ok (thats flirting), but if you say it like you mean it then she probably will think you are a stalker"well, it was going pretty bad, but when you asked me, I'm better", or something like that? [/B]
We don't put down women.Originally posted by TheGotDamnHNiC
why do yall always go for putting women down on here?
i love making women feel good and smile...and i don't mean that in a simp ass way.
say "sh!t, it was good, but doing something with you later will make it better." or "let me tell you over the phone" or "lets talk about it over lunch" ... if you aren't with her yet..if you are..just say how it went
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
yeah right...Originally posted by DJ4Real
We don't put down women.