ICaughtFire
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there's this girl i am flirting with and usually when we talk she will ask me how was my day, and i cant think of a funny reply to that, any help guys?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How do you answer this??
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
girl: "how is your day" (or something like that)
you: "well, it was going pretty good, but then i had to hang with you" or "it was ok, but then i got asked this really dumb question 'how was your day' or somethibg like that"
i know it sounds weak in writing, and not very nice, but if you say it right it should work (or at least it did for me).
you: "well, it was going pretty good, but then i had to hang with you" or "it was ok, but then i got asked this really dumb question 'how was your day' or somethibg like that"
i know it sounds weak in writing, and not very nice, but if you say it right it should work (or at least it did for me).
ICaughtFire
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lol that's good idea, i like the second one
TheGotDamnHNiC
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why do yall always go for putting women down on here?
i love making women feel good and smile...and i don't mean that in a simp ass way.
say "sh!t, it was good, but doing something with you later will make it better." or "let me tell you over the phone" or "lets talk about it over lunch" ... if you aren't with her yet..if you are..just say how it went
i love making women feel good and smile...and i don't mean that in a simp ass way.
say "sh!t, it was good, but doing something with you later will make it better." or "let me tell you over the phone" or "lets talk about it over lunch" ... if you aren't with her yet..if you are..just say how it went
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
NoNickname
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Is it too nice to answer "well, it was going pretty bad, but when you asked me, I'm better", or something like that?
RustyMatin
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Just start a conversation. You don't have to have something scripted, saying that it was fine and asking her works well. Just go with the flow and don't force everything. Read the bible and these kinds of questions go away because you realize that little lines like this are trivial and its your "Inner Game" that matters. Focus on getting your confidence up, because when you're confident, you know it doesn't really matter in the end what you say to that question becuase she will like you anyway.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
TheGotDamnHNiC
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yeah right...