"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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how do u keep a text conversation going?

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I really need to improve on this. Its really difficult for me to think of what to talk about. Im not a very socialized person however i do love to have fun without thinking much of other's opinions. Im also very new at texting.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You keep a text conversation going the same way you keep a regular conversation going. When the seeds are planted, you water them. Although some people will advise against texting as they believe it kills relationships. I kinda like Muscleman's logic on this: "Texting is one of the main ways people stay in touch now, so why limit yourself?"

Anyway, when you're texting or having a conversation in general just pick up on the things they say. They might mention a trip out of town. You water that seed. i.e. "Where to?" Just don't make a habit of texting girls frequently, in that case texting does kill relationships.
 

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yeah, i just talked to a guy about this earlier,

with a quick recap of what he said

be silly, but not self deprecating
don't ask her to do things, tell her
keep in control
don't double text

he said a lot more but those are quick tips and this guy is REALLY good at texting
 

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Nite said:
yeah, i just talked to a guy about this earlier,

with a quick recap of what he said

be silly, but not self deprecating
don't ask her to do things, tell her
keep in control
don't double text

he said a lot more but those are quick tips and this guy is REALLY good at texting
^ What's up with the "double texting rule"? Read it somewhere before, but I dismissed it. I mean, personally I don't double text chicks but I don't see the harm in doing it.
 

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Not really sure, I think it's suppose to be a value thing or to stay aloof.

I don't understand all the rules but, I'm sure as hell following them

I'll ask next time I see him for any psychology behind it
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Eph said:
^ What's up with the "double texting rule"? Read it somewhere before, but I dismissed it. I mean, personally I don't double text chicks but I don't see the harm in doing it.
Seems desperate as hell. Especially if you asked a question and she didn't respond. I only double-text my guy friends or platonic girls.
 

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Idgaf if its desperate or not, i just want them(any1 even pick up girls) to *uckin respond xD i feel disrespected and irritated if people dont respond.
 

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If you're getting irritated that's the wrong time to double text. I'll double or triple text a girl I like if I know she likes me and the texts are funny or show an exciting lifestyle.
 

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Dorchester said:
Seems desperate as hell. Especially if you asked a question and she didn't respond. I only double-text my guy friends or platonic girls.
I get what you're saying. Jericg, like LearningSlowly said if you're getting irritated it's not a smart move to double text. Be (more) in control of your emotions. When people don't text me back, I honestly could care less. But I see nothing wrong with double-texting someone (anyone; male or female) a few hours or so later to restart a conversation or just to check if they'll actually respond.

What I personally don't "approve" of is:
You (5:00PM): hey
(no response)
you (5:10PM): why won't you answer
that seems desperate as hell.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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