"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How do I "unleash" my girlfriend's potential?!

Fitch

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Me and my girlfriend just began dating, and things are going really well. She even slept over once. No sex, but we slept together on the same bed. It was awesome :)

Everything is going well, but one thing. I, personally, love a woman who loves to explore and try new things. A woman who is agressive, as well.

So I should I go about getting her to act this way (aggressive, and venturous)?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mr. Debonaire

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my advice, dont try to change her. It won't rub her the right way, it rarely ever does.

However, whenever she does act agressively, let her know how much you like it, then she might be more inclined to do so
 
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Originally posted by Fitch
Me and my girlfriend just began dating, and things are going really well. She even slept over once. No sex, but we slept together on the same bed. It was awesome :)

Everything is going well, but one thing. I, personally, love a woman who loves to explore and try new things. A woman who is agressive, as well.

So I should I go about getting her to act this way (aggressive, and venturous)?
If u want to change her best way to do it is screening! Like in a sincere kinda way. I do this all the time. Heres what you do, you get her really interested and excited and love your company to death then instead of teasin her with attention you tell her like..ex
"hmm i dunno if i should hang out round you anymore."
she'll be like "why????!?"
"well i only hang out round spotanous but agreesive girls!"
and then she'll be tryin to prove herself to you. Its so fun when you do this man you should try it. If she dont try to prove herself, well shes just no fun and you know what you must do lol....NEXT!
 

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Get her really comfortable. Once she is comfortable, things will happen. Good things. New things. "Little sleep during the night" things.
 
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Originally posted by TheVirtualMind
Get her really comfortable. Once she is comfortable, things will happen. Good things. New things. "Little sleep during the night" things.

LMAO. Be careful tho cus sometimes little things get created also when the condom break that is.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Fitch

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Originally posted by MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO
LMAO. Be careful tho cus sometimes little things get created also when the condom break that is.
ROFL. :D

So just give her some time, and let her get comfortable? Is it appropriate if I say comfort her by saying if she is ever uncomfortable, do not be shy... or something along that line?

Just let everything flow right? Or is there anything I could do?

Is there anything that I should be aware of?
 

SlyD4rK

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yeah quit being so nervous...and become comfortable..in fact dont even think about it...and if you do pinch yourself
 
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