"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How do I "unleash" my girlfriend's potential?!

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Me and my girlfriend just began dating, and things are going really well. She even slept over once. No sex, but we slept together on the same bed. It was awesome :)

Everything is going well, but one thing. I, personally, love a woman who loves to explore and try new things. A woman who is agressive, as well.

So I should I go about getting her to act this way (aggressive, and venturous)?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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my advice, dont try to change her. It won't rub her the right way, it rarely ever does.

However, whenever she does act agressively, let her know how much you like it, then she might be more inclined to do so
 
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MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO

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Originally posted by Fitch
Me and my girlfriend just began dating, and things are going really well. She even slept over once. No sex, but we slept together on the same bed. It was awesome :)

Everything is going well, but one thing. I, personally, love a woman who loves to explore and try new things. A woman who is agressive, as well.

So I should I go about getting her to act this way (aggressive, and venturous)?
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If u want to change her best way to do it is screening! Like in a sincere kinda way. I do this all the time. Heres what you do, you get her really interested and excited and love your company to death then instead of teasin her with attention you tell her like..ex
"hmm i dunno if i should hang out round you anymore."
she'll be like "why????!?"
"well i only hang out round spotanous but agreesive girls!"
and then she'll be tryin to prove herself to you. Its so fun when you do this man you should try it. If she dont try to prove herself, well shes just no fun and you know what you must do lol....NEXT!
 
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Get her really comfortable. Once she is comfortable, things will happen. Good things. New things. "Little sleep during the night" things.
 
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Get her really comfortable. Once she is comfortable, things will happen. Good things. New things. "Little sleep during the night" things.
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LMAO. Be careful tho cus sometimes little things get created also when the condom break that is.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO
LMAO. Be careful tho cus sometimes little things get created also when the condom break that is.
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ROFL. :D

So just give her some time, and let her get comfortable? Is it appropriate if I say comfort her by saying if she is ever uncomfortable, do not be shy... or something along that line?

Just let everything flow right? Or is there anything I could do?

Is there anything that I should be aware of?
 
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yeah quit being so nervous...and become comfortable..in fact dont even think about it...and if you do pinch yourself
 
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