"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do I "unleash" my girlfriend's potential?!

Fitch

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Me and my girlfriend just began dating, and things are going really well. She even slept over once. No sex, but we slept together on the same bed. It was awesome :)

Everything is going well, but one thing. I, personally, love a woman who loves to explore and try new things. A woman who is agressive, as well.

So I should I go about getting her to act this way (aggressive, and venturous)?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mr. Debonaire

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my advice, dont try to change her. It won't rub her the right way, it rarely ever does.

However, whenever she does act agressively, let her know how much you like it, then she might be more inclined to do so
 
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Originally posted by Fitch
Me and my girlfriend just began dating, and things are going really well. She even slept over once. No sex, but we slept together on the same bed. It was awesome :)

Everything is going well, but one thing. I, personally, love a woman who loves to explore and try new things. A woman who is agressive, as well.

So I should I go about getting her to act this way (aggressive, and venturous)?
If u want to change her best way to do it is screening! Like in a sincere kinda way. I do this all the time. Heres what you do, you get her really interested and excited and love your company to death then instead of teasin her with attention you tell her like..ex
"hmm i dunno if i should hang out round you anymore."
she'll be like "why????!?"
"well i only hang out round spotanous but agreesive girls!"
and then she'll be tryin to prove herself to you. Its so fun when you do this man you should try it. If she dont try to prove herself, well shes just no fun and you know what you must do lol....NEXT!
 

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Get her really comfortable. Once she is comfortable, things will happen. Good things. New things. "Little sleep during the night" things.
 
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Originally posted by TheVirtualMind
Get her really comfortable. Once she is comfortable, things will happen. Good things. New things. "Little sleep during the night" things.

LMAO. Be careful tho cus sometimes little things get created also when the condom break that is.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fitch

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Originally posted by MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO
LMAO. Be careful tho cus sometimes little things get created also when the condom break that is.
ROFL. :D

So just give her some time, and let her get comfortable? Is it appropriate if I say comfort her by saying if she is ever uncomfortable, do not be shy... or something along that line?

Just let everything flow right? Or is there anything I could do?

Is there anything that I should be aware of?
 

SlyD4rK

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yeah quit being so nervous...and become comfortable..in fact dont even think about it...and if you do pinch yourself
 
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