"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How do I "unleash" my girlfriend's potential?!

Fitch

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Me and my girlfriend just began dating, and things are going really well. She even slept over once. No sex, but we slept together on the same bed. It was awesome :)

Everything is going well, but one thing. I, personally, love a woman who loves to explore and try new things. A woman who is agressive, as well.

So I should I go about getting her to act this way (aggressive, and venturous)?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mr. Debonaire

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my advice, dont try to change her. It won't rub her the right way, it rarely ever does.

However, whenever she does act agressively, let her know how much you like it, then she might be more inclined to do so
 
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Originally posted by Fitch
Me and my girlfriend just began dating, and things are going really well. She even slept over once. No sex, but we slept together on the same bed. It was awesome :)

Everything is going well, but one thing. I, personally, love a woman who loves to explore and try new things. A woman who is agressive, as well.

So I should I go about getting her to act this way (aggressive, and venturous)?
If u want to change her best way to do it is screening! Like in a sincere kinda way. I do this all the time. Heres what you do, you get her really interested and excited and love your company to death then instead of teasin her with attention you tell her like..ex
"hmm i dunno if i should hang out round you anymore."
she'll be like "why????!?"
"well i only hang out round spotanous but agreesive girls!"
and then she'll be tryin to prove herself to you. Its so fun when you do this man you should try it. If she dont try to prove herself, well shes just no fun and you know what you must do lol....NEXT!
 

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Get her really comfortable. Once she is comfortable, things will happen. Good things. New things. "Little sleep during the night" things.
 
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Originally posted by TheVirtualMind
Get her really comfortable. Once she is comfortable, things will happen. Good things. New things. "Little sleep during the night" things.

LMAO. Be careful tho cus sometimes little things get created also when the condom break that is.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fitch

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Originally posted by MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO
LMAO. Be careful tho cus sometimes little things get created also when the condom break that is.
ROFL. :D

So just give her some time, and let her get comfortable? Is it appropriate if I say comfort her by saying if she is ever uncomfortable, do not be shy... or something along that line?

Just let everything flow right? Or is there anything I could do?

Is there anything that I should be aware of?
 

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yeah quit being so nervous...and become comfortable..in fact dont even think about it...and if you do pinch yourself
 
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