I haven't talked to her yet. I saw her many times in the hallway today and she always looked at me, not sure if I should make eye contact back or what. I think I will make a facebook, add a few friends and hope that she adds me.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
how do i talk to her
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
YoYoRocks
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MikePablo said:
lol you got some serious problems man.
Whats the worst possible scenario if you go up and talk to her?
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Dude, I can identify with this guy. I was like that when I first got into this. Most people are.YoYoRocks said:
You dont have serious problems.
Maybe you do, but they are COMMON serious problems.
How to fix it?
Taking action to break the pattern.
Go talk to her.
Action comes before confidence.
Quick post before I head to the gym 
Yo man make a facebook but also keep eye contact and if you can throw in a smile, it might be uncomfortable at first since you not used to it but trust me eye contact is hugeeee. Just make sure you don't stare because that can get awkward. Dueces.
Yo man make a facebook but also keep eye contact and if you can throw in a smile, it might be uncomfortable at first since you not used to it but trust me eye contact is hugeeee. Just make sure you don't stare because that can get awkward. Dueces.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.