I haven't talked to her yet. I saw her many times in the hallway today and she always looked at me, not sure if I should make eye contact back or what. I think I will make a facebook, add a few friends and hope that she adds me.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
how do i talk to her
- Thread starter MikePablo
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
YoYoRocks
Don Juan
MikePablo said:
lol you got some serious problems man.
Whats the worst possible scenario if you go up and talk to her?
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Dude, I can identify with this guy. I was like that when I first got into this. Most people are.YoYoRocks said:
You dont have serious problems.
Maybe you do, but they are COMMON serious problems.
How to fix it?
Taking action to break the pattern.
Go talk to her.
Action comes before confidence.
Quick post before I head to the gym 
Yo man make a facebook but also keep eye contact and if you can throw in a smile, it might be uncomfortable at first since you not used to it but trust me eye contact is hugeeee. Just make sure you don't stare because that can get awkward. Dueces.
Yo man make a facebook but also keep eye contact and if you can throw in a smile, it might be uncomfortable at first since you not used to it but trust me eye contact is hugeeee. Just make sure you don't stare because that can get awkward. Dueces.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.