I haven't talked to her yet. I saw her many times in the hallway today and she always looked at me, not sure if I should make eye contact back or what. I think I will make a facebook, add a few friends and hope that she adds me.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
how do i talk to her
- Thread starter MikePablo
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
YoYoRocks
Don Juan
MikePablo said:
lol you got some serious problems man.
Whats the worst possible scenario if you go up and talk to her?
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Dude, I can identify with this guy. I was like that when I first got into this. Most people are.YoYoRocks said:
You dont have serious problems.
Maybe you do, but they are COMMON serious problems.
How to fix it?
Taking action to break the pattern.
Go talk to her.
Action comes before confidence.
Quick post before I head to the gym 
Yo man make a facebook but also keep eye contact and if you can throw in a smile, it might be uncomfortable at first since you not used to it but trust me eye contact is hugeeee. Just make sure you don't stare because that can get awkward. Dueces.
Yo man make a facebook but also keep eye contact and if you can throw in a smile, it might be uncomfortable at first since you not used to it but trust me eye contact is hugeeee. Just make sure you don't stare because that can get awkward. Dueces.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.