Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How do i stop going directly to the comfort zone?

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As the title says
By default, I am going to the comfort zone while talking with girls
I even noticed the same thing in social situations, how do i stop being what I am?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i know buddy, i would like to change it
with out it, i am having no luck with women
Any suggestions?
 
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You don't have to change who you are... Just add more to it. Be fun, mysterious, sexual, indifferent, challenging, etc - on TOP of being kind, friendly, caring, etc. It's the balance and diversity you need. Most girls find nice guys to be boring. So, be an exciting one.

Dont enter relationship mode, spill your heart out, become pushy, or act serious too soon. Just date, relax, and have fun. Don't worry or put pressure on yourself. Don't care about the outcome. You can do all of that relationship stuff once you ENTER the serious relationship phase. This is a long ways from the dating phase.
 
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This "Be fun, mysterious, sexual, indifferent, challenging, "
I don't know my friend, how do i bring this frame into my mind.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Maximummax said:
This "Be fun, mysterious, sexual, indifferent, challenging, "
I don't know my friend, how do i bring this frame into my mind.
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how would you behave if you were getting lots of sex from different hotties..would you care if some girl you said hi to didn't respond..or some girl you asked flaked..NO..coz you're already happy where you are.

whenever the wussy inside you tries to take the upper hand..just ask..how would i behave if i had a harem of hotties..would i care ?
 
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