"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do i stop going directly to the comfort zone?

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Maximummax

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As the title says
By default, I am going to the comfort zone while talking with girls
I even noticed the same thing in social situations, how do i stop being what I am?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i know buddy, i would like to change it
with out it, i am having no luck with women
Any suggestions?
 
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You don't have to change who you are... Just add more to it. Be fun, mysterious, sexual, indifferent, challenging, etc - on TOP of being kind, friendly, caring, etc. It's the balance and diversity you need. Most girls find nice guys to be boring. So, be an exciting one.

Dont enter relationship mode, spill your heart out, become pushy, or act serious too soon. Just date, relax, and have fun. Don't worry or put pressure on yourself. Don't care about the outcome. You can do all of that relationship stuff once you ENTER the serious relationship phase. This is a long ways from the dating phase.
 
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This "Be fun, mysterious, sexual, indifferent, challenging, "
I don't know my friend, how do i bring this frame into my mind.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Maximummax said:
This "Be fun, mysterious, sexual, indifferent, challenging, "
I don't know my friend, how do i bring this frame into my mind.
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how would you behave if you were getting lots of sex from different hotties..would you care if some girl you said hi to didn't respond..or some girl you asked flaked..NO..coz you're already happy where you are.

whenever the wussy inside you tries to take the upper hand..just ask..how would i behave if i had a harem of hotties..would i care ?
 
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