"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do i stop going directly to the comfort zone?

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As the title says
By default, I am going to the comfort zone while talking with girls
I even noticed the same thing in social situations, how do i stop being what I am?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i know buddy, i would like to change it
with out it, i am having no luck with women
Any suggestions?
 
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You don't have to change who you are... Just add more to it. Be fun, mysterious, sexual, indifferent, challenging, etc - on TOP of being kind, friendly, caring, etc. It's the balance and diversity you need. Most girls find nice guys to be boring. So, be an exciting one.

Dont enter relationship mode, spill your heart out, become pushy, or act serious too soon. Just date, relax, and have fun. Don't worry or put pressure on yourself. Don't care about the outcome. You can do all of that relationship stuff once you ENTER the serious relationship phase. This is a long ways from the dating phase.
 
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This "Be fun, mysterious, sexual, indifferent, challenging, "
I don't know my friend, how do i bring this frame into my mind.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Maximummax said:
This "Be fun, mysterious, sexual, indifferent, challenging, "
I don't know my friend, how do i bring this frame into my mind.
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how would you behave if you were getting lots of sex from different hotties..would you care if some girl you said hi to didn't respond..or some girl you asked flaked..NO..coz you're already happy where you are.

whenever the wussy inside you tries to take the upper hand..just ask..how would i behave if i had a harem of hotties..would i care ?
 
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