"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do i stop going directly to the comfort zone?

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As the title says
By default, I am going to the comfort zone while talking with girls
I even noticed the same thing in social situations, how do i stop being what I am?
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i know buddy, i would like to change it
with out it, i am having no luck with women
Any suggestions?
 
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You don't have to change who you are... Just add more to it. Be fun, mysterious, sexual, indifferent, challenging, etc - on TOP of being kind, friendly, caring, etc. It's the balance and diversity you need. Most girls find nice guys to be boring. So, be an exciting one.

Dont enter relationship mode, spill your heart out, become pushy, or act serious too soon. Just date, relax, and have fun. Don't worry or put pressure on yourself. Don't care about the outcome. You can do all of that relationship stuff once you ENTER the serious relationship phase. This is a long ways from the dating phase.
 
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This "Be fun, mysterious, sexual, indifferent, challenging, "
I don't know my friend, how do i bring this frame into my mind.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Maximummax said:
This "Be fun, mysterious, sexual, indifferent, challenging, "
I don't know my friend, how do i bring this frame into my mind.
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how would you behave if you were getting lots of sex from different hotties..would you care if some girl you said hi to didn't respond..or some girl you asked flaked..NO..coz you're already happy where you are.

whenever the wussy inside you tries to take the upper hand..just ask..how would i behave if i had a harem of hotties..would i care ?
 
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