"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how do i reply to her on pof?

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thechosenone2190

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ME
12/28/2012 8:23:34 PM
Salary: 41K
Hobbies: Basketball, Weightlifting, Coding using PHP, Reading, Meditation

Straight to the point, I think your pretty. Want to chat?

HB
12/28/2012 11:04:46 PM
Salary: About double what I make. Not hat I give a **** about that. Because money doesn't buy happiness. At least, it can't buy what I want, for the most part (although, it seems like you can pay anybody for anything these days).
Hobbies: sounds good. Reading what in particular? Novelas? Periodicals? What's written in bathroom stalls? Also have you ever reached Brahma? (lolz.)

At least your straightforward.

ME
12/29/2012 12:58:32 PM
i'm reading world war z now. it's about zombies. they're making a movie for it soon starring brad pitt. i finished hunger games and abraham lincoln vampire slayer. what do you read? 50 shades of grey?

HB
12/29/2012 3:10:09 PM
Yeah. 50 Shades of Grey, a badly written trashy love novel that misconstrues **** and promotes abusive relationships. You got that right.

I'm just finishing some Bradbury short stories at the moment.

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can you guys tell me how to reply? i've never read bradbury short stories. but i do find this hb very attractive, and she lives in a town very close to mines
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm sorry, but I'm busy cringing at every time you used "your" instead of "you're".

In any case, just ask her what it's about, why she likes or dislikes it, etc.
 
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pinkfl said:
I'm sorry, but I'm busy cringing at every time you used "your" instead of "you're".
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Fo sho.

Also, I'm confused, you opened your message stating your salary and hobbies?

But anyway, your conversation is kind of boring, stop talking about books for fvcks sake.

'Yeah Bradbury is pretty cool. So are you a [insert city here] girl? What kind of trouble do you get into around here?'

Blah blah, exchange a couple messages, then 'well this site is kinda lame, let's exchange numbers so we can text instead, I'm at [insert number here].'

Either she'll send you her number, text you, or you'll find out she's not into you.
 
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I read at a third grade level so I haven't tried Bradbury yet. Who knew Fahrenheit went that high?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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