"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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how do i reply to her on pof?

thechosenone2190

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ME
12/28/2012 8:23:34 PM
Salary: 41K
Hobbies: Basketball, Weightlifting, Coding using PHP, Reading, Meditation

Straight to the point, I think your pretty. Want to chat?

HB
12/28/2012 11:04:46 PM
Salary: About double what I make. Not hat I give a **** about that. Because money doesn't buy happiness. At least, it can't buy what I want, for the most part (although, it seems like you can pay anybody for anything these days).
Hobbies: sounds good. Reading what in particular? Novelas? Periodicals? What's written in bathroom stalls? Also have you ever reached Brahma? (lolz.)

At least your straightforward.

ME
12/29/2012 12:58:32 PM
i'm reading world war z now. it's about zombies. they're making a movie for it soon starring brad pitt. i finished hunger games and abraham lincoln vampire slayer. what do you read? 50 shades of grey?

HB
12/29/2012 3:10:09 PM
Yeah. 50 Shades of Grey, a badly written trashy love novel that misconstrues **** and promotes abusive relationships. You got that right.

I'm just finishing some Bradbury short stories at the moment.

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can you guys tell me how to reply? i've never read bradbury short stories. but i do find this hb very attractive, and she lives in a town very close to mines
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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pinkfl

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I'm sorry, but I'm busy cringing at every time you used "your" instead of "you're".

In any case, just ask her what it's about, why she likes or dislikes it, etc.
 

ARrocket

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pinkfl said:
I'm sorry, but I'm busy cringing at every time you used "your" instead of "you're".
Fo sho.

Also, I'm confused, you opened your message stating your salary and hobbies?

But anyway, your conversation is kind of boring, stop talking about books for fvcks sake.

'Yeah Bradbury is pretty cool. So are you a [insert city here] girl? What kind of trouble do you get into around here?'

Blah blah, exchange a couple messages, then 'well this site is kinda lame, let's exchange numbers so we can text instead, I'm at [insert number here].'

Either she'll send you her number, text you, or you'll find out she's not into you.
 

Kbomb

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I read at a third grade level so I haven't tried Bradbury yet. Who knew Fahrenheit went that high?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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