"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do I play 2 (or 3) girls at one time?

Ouzo

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Ok. So I started reading this **** on here and I'm doing well.

I used to be an AFC, now I'm not a pro but I am learning to not be so much of a nice guy. But I still have elements in me.

For instance, tonight I was at a party ...hooking up with one girl I'm with at the moment and all good I leave with my mates telling her I'll come back later to drive her home only if I get action (we are very open ha ha).

But, I get a text from this other girl saying 'where are you, im outside the party, come out' ...what the **** do I do. I mean I'm glad I wasn't there at the time but with one girl all over me, how am I meant to be playing another girl?

I know it can make me look good that I have other girls after me ...but if I'm meant to be spading one girl ...I can't be blatantly getting down anothers throat.

Anyone had problems with this? These two girls half know eachother. Different schools, same age, same social group (group we go to parties with). I'm a known person so if someone says I was with her ...it will get around quick.

This other girl is sincere and looking for a relationship. The other is looking for casual.

How do you guys do it? I don't want in the end to **** some girls perception about me. I already tell them I'm not into relationships and I enjoy being with girls and they accept that but I don't think they realise I'll be doing 2-3 girls at one stage.

Help? :woo:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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!!

just don't sped too mcuh time with either of them, and they'll get the idea you're openly dating. word will go around that you're a ladies man, and you're social value will go up (for both sexes!)
 

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just so you know, its not as bad as you think when girls find out that you are with other girls. most guys think that the girl will automatically get mad at you and never want to talk or be around you again. this is simply not true in most cases. most of the time the girl will get mad at the other girl(s) and try even harder to win you over.

this is what happened to me when i started dating my girlfriend. i was seeing a few girls and finally picked one to date and stopped doing as much with the others. well when the other 2 girls heard about it they tried much harder to get me to do stuff with them.
 

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I'm getting there ...I mean as the dude said in the other post - I am getting emotional, and that sucks.

Ok so first girl wants casual.
Second girl is more relationship-type.
Third girl just wants to **** me.

It does seem I'm in dream land. And I want to nail them all lol but I need to keep my emotions in ...in fact have no ****ing emotions. :rolleyes:

I'll keep ya updated. Seeing two of them tonight lol ...hopefully not at the same time. First girl and third girl.

But yes I am hunting in my own backyard for TWO of them. I'd rather have the first and third one.

Love yourself - thats the best advice I have heard today in that other thread. Cheers bro.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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