"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do I play 2 (or 3) girls at one time?

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Ok. So I started reading this **** on here and I'm doing well.

I used to be an AFC, now I'm not a pro but I am learning to not be so much of a nice guy. But I still have elements in me.

For instance, tonight I was at a party ...hooking up with one girl I'm with at the moment and all good I leave with my mates telling her I'll come back later to drive her home only if I get action (we are very open ha ha).

But, I get a text from this other girl saying 'where are you, im outside the party, come out' ...what the **** do I do. I mean I'm glad I wasn't there at the time but with one girl all over me, how am I meant to be playing another girl?

I know it can make me look good that I have other girls after me ...but if I'm meant to be spading one girl ...I can't be blatantly getting down anothers throat.

Anyone had problems with this? These two girls half know eachother. Different schools, same age, same social group (group we go to parties with). I'm a known person so if someone says I was with her ...it will get around quick.

This other girl is sincere and looking for a relationship. The other is looking for casual.

How do you guys do it? I don't want in the end to **** some girls perception about me. I already tell them I'm not into relationships and I enjoy being with girls and they accept that but I don't think they realise I'll be doing 2-3 girls at one stage.

Help? :woo:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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just don't sped too mcuh time with either of them, and they'll get the idea you're openly dating. word will go around that you're a ladies man, and you're social value will go up (for both sexes!)
 
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just so you know, its not as bad as you think when girls find out that you are with other girls. most guys think that the girl will automatically get mad at you and never want to talk or be around you again. this is simply not true in most cases. most of the time the girl will get mad at the other girl(s) and try even harder to win you over.

this is what happened to me when i started dating my girlfriend. i was seeing a few girls and finally picked one to date and stopped doing as much with the others. well when the other 2 girls heard about it they tried much harder to get me to do stuff with them.
 
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I'm getting there ...I mean as the dude said in the other post - I am getting emotional, and that sucks.

Ok so first girl wants casual.
Second girl is more relationship-type.
Third girl just wants to **** me.

It does seem I'm in dream land. And I want to nail them all lol but I need to keep my emotions in ...in fact have no ****ing emotions. :rolleyes:

I'll keep ya updated. Seeing two of them tonight lol ...hopefully not at the same time. First girl and third girl.

But yes I am hunting in my own backyard for TWO of them. I'd rather have the first and third one.

Love yourself - thats the best advice I have heard today in that other thread. Cheers bro.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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