"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do I play 2 (or 3) girls at one time?

Ouzo

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Ok. So I started reading this **** on here and I'm doing well.

I used to be an AFC, now I'm not a pro but I am learning to not be so much of a nice guy. But I still have elements in me.

For instance, tonight I was at a party ...hooking up with one girl I'm with at the moment and all good I leave with my mates telling her I'll come back later to drive her home only if I get action (we are very open ha ha).

But, I get a text from this other girl saying 'where are you, im outside the party, come out' ...what the **** do I do. I mean I'm glad I wasn't there at the time but with one girl all over me, how am I meant to be playing another girl?

I know it can make me look good that I have other girls after me ...but if I'm meant to be spading one girl ...I can't be blatantly getting down anothers throat.

Anyone had problems with this? These two girls half know eachother. Different schools, same age, same social group (group we go to parties with). I'm a known person so if someone says I was with her ...it will get around quick.

This other girl is sincere and looking for a relationship. The other is looking for casual.

How do you guys do it? I don't want in the end to **** some girls perception about me. I already tell them I'm not into relationships and I enjoy being with girls and they accept that but I don't think they realise I'll be doing 2-3 girls at one stage.

Help? :woo:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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!!

just don't sped too mcuh time with either of them, and they'll get the idea you're openly dating. word will go around that you're a ladies man, and you're social value will go up (for both sexes!)
 

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just so you know, its not as bad as you think when girls find out that you are with other girls. most guys think that the girl will automatically get mad at you and never want to talk or be around you again. this is simply not true in most cases. most of the time the girl will get mad at the other girl(s) and try even harder to win you over.

this is what happened to me when i started dating my girlfriend. i was seeing a few girls and finally picked one to date and stopped doing as much with the others. well when the other 2 girls heard about it they tried much harder to get me to do stuff with them.
 

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I'm getting there ...I mean as the dude said in the other post - I am getting emotional, and that sucks.

Ok so first girl wants casual.
Second girl is more relationship-type.
Third girl just wants to **** me.

It does seem I'm in dream land. And I want to nail them all lol but I need to keep my emotions in ...in fact have no ****ing emotions. :rolleyes:

I'll keep ya updated. Seeing two of them tonight lol ...hopefully not at the same time. First girl and third girl.

But yes I am hunting in my own backyard for TWO of them. I'd rather have the first and third one.

Love yourself - thats the best advice I have heard today in that other thread. Cheers bro.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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