"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do I play 2 (or 3) girls at one time?

Ouzo

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Ok. So I started reading this **** on here and I'm doing well.

I used to be an AFC, now I'm not a pro but I am learning to not be so much of a nice guy. But I still have elements in me.

For instance, tonight I was at a party ...hooking up with one girl I'm with at the moment and all good I leave with my mates telling her I'll come back later to drive her home only if I get action (we are very open ha ha).

But, I get a text from this other girl saying 'where are you, im outside the party, come out' ...what the **** do I do. I mean I'm glad I wasn't there at the time but with one girl all over me, how am I meant to be playing another girl?

I know it can make me look good that I have other girls after me ...but if I'm meant to be spading one girl ...I can't be blatantly getting down anothers throat.

Anyone had problems with this? These two girls half know eachother. Different schools, same age, same social group (group we go to parties with). I'm a known person so if someone says I was with her ...it will get around quick.

This other girl is sincere and looking for a relationship. The other is looking for casual.

How do you guys do it? I don't want in the end to **** some girls perception about me. I already tell them I'm not into relationships and I enjoy being with girls and they accept that but I don't think they realise I'll be doing 2-3 girls at one stage.

Help? :woo:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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!!

just don't sped too mcuh time with either of them, and they'll get the idea you're openly dating. word will go around that you're a ladies man, and you're social value will go up (for both sexes!)
 

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just so you know, its not as bad as you think when girls find out that you are with other girls. most guys think that the girl will automatically get mad at you and never want to talk or be around you again. this is simply not true in most cases. most of the time the girl will get mad at the other girl(s) and try even harder to win you over.

this is what happened to me when i started dating my girlfriend. i was seeing a few girls and finally picked one to date and stopped doing as much with the others. well when the other 2 girls heard about it they tried much harder to get me to do stuff with them.
 

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I'm getting there ...I mean as the dude said in the other post - I am getting emotional, and that sucks.

Ok so first girl wants casual.
Second girl is more relationship-type.
Third girl just wants to **** me.

It does seem I'm in dream land. And I want to nail them all lol but I need to keep my emotions in ...in fact have no ****ing emotions. :rolleyes:

I'll keep ya updated. Seeing two of them tonight lol ...hopefully not at the same time. First girl and third girl.

But yes I am hunting in my own backyard for TWO of them. I'd rather have the first and third one.

Love yourself - thats the best advice I have heard today in that other thread. Cheers bro.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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