"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do I nab this girl that had high interest but now feels lower since i had wreck?

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Long story short, I went on date with this girl and she showed high interest on our date all smiley and talking about all the different kind of things we can do, next week lets go bowling lets do this etc... I kissed her after date. Called her 4 days later and got next date setup. During this week I get in a head on collision car wreck. Broke arm and foot and knee and dislocated hip. I was in a coma 10 days ICU and couldnt contact obvious. My dad contacted her told her I was in hospital and she sent text i feel soo bad im sorry and where you at and stuff. she came visit me with a friend and saw me for minute and said shed come by herself next time and she did and we made out and laid in bed. I was tryin to finger her and she stopped me. We talked little bit and I was like wish I can have sex and not have this immobolizer she said after like 8 dates i laughed said its worth it. After that she wouldnt come see me anymore she said she missses me and was thinkin about me and wanted to come but worked overtime. I texted her that was leavin hospital soon I wanted you come visit she said yes! i said let me know when your cute butt is here. Didnt hear anything all week from her and I texted her when I got home 4th of july asked her what she up to and told her she should come see me at my dads because im home now and no reply. I called her sunday said whats up havent heard from you I guess I hit you up when im back on my feet. She call me later that night said she called other day i never got call and she was out of town that weekend and she said mom is on phone clicked over and said lemme call you back and didnt.

What do i do?? 1 Just dont talk to her until I heal or 2 keep in touch call every week try to get her to come over visit me? I would like to see her I just feel like she doesnt want to make effort advice please thanks!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Krohlm

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^ This, what Espi said.
first sorry about your crash bro.

thelonewolflegend said:
We talked little bit and I was like wish I can have sex and not have this immobolizer she said after like 8 dates i laughed said its worth it.
http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/23/wait-for-it/

Its not worth 8 dates honestly bro. She's lost interest when you've hit a low then she doesn't deserve you when you better.

*shrugs*
focus on getting better and find someone else/move on.
 
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Nd 8 date thibg just kinda joke she sayin but just meaning burnt by. Guys aThanks but ya don't understand she attractive and also there's anaother attractive girl doing same she just saw me and txted hope u get better n stuff. The girl I'm not into is the one keeps seeing me and stuff. What do I do with this one I like? I just wana sleep with her u know
 
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Am graful. And blessed that I'm alive and got famiy frriends l but just tryibg figure this girl out cuz she seemedto like me.I sorry for typos on a crappyu phone.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Forget about that bıtch, man, she bailed on you. NOT a good sign. Sorry to hear about your accident. Take care of yourself for a speedy recovery and don't even think about her. That should be your #1 priority right now.
 
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