"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do I nab this girl that had high interest but now feels lower since i had wreck?

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Long story short, I went on date with this girl and she showed high interest on our date all smiley and talking about all the different kind of things we can do, next week lets go bowling lets do this etc... I kissed her after date. Called her 4 days later and got next date setup. During this week I get in a head on collision car wreck. Broke arm and foot and knee and dislocated hip. I was in a coma 10 days ICU and couldnt contact obvious. My dad contacted her told her I was in hospital and she sent text i feel soo bad im sorry and where you at and stuff. she came visit me with a friend and saw me for minute and said shed come by herself next time and she did and we made out and laid in bed. I was tryin to finger her and she stopped me. We talked little bit and I was like wish I can have sex and not have this immobolizer she said after like 8 dates i laughed said its worth it. After that she wouldnt come see me anymore she said she missses me and was thinkin about me and wanted to come but worked overtime. I texted her that was leavin hospital soon I wanted you come visit she said yes! i said let me know when your cute butt is here. Didnt hear anything all week from her and I texted her when I got home 4th of july asked her what she up to and told her she should come see me at my dads because im home now and no reply. I called her sunday said whats up havent heard from you I guess I hit you up when im back on my feet. She call me later that night said she called other day i never got call and she was out of town that weekend and she said mom is on phone clicked over and said lemme call you back and didnt.

What do i do?? 1 Just dont talk to her until I heal or 2 keep in touch call every week try to get her to come over visit me? I would like to see her I just feel like she doesnt want to make effort advice please thanks!!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Krohlm

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^ This, what Espi said.
first sorry about your crash bro.

thelonewolflegend said:
We talked little bit and I was like wish I can have sex and not have this immobolizer she said after like 8 dates i laughed said its worth it.
http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/23/wait-for-it/

Its not worth 8 dates honestly bro. She's lost interest when you've hit a low then she doesn't deserve you when you better.

*shrugs*
focus on getting better and find someone else/move on.
 
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Nd 8 date thibg just kinda joke she sayin but just meaning burnt by. Guys aThanks but ya don't understand she attractive and also there's anaother attractive girl doing same she just saw me and txted hope u get better n stuff. The girl I'm not into is the one keeps seeing me and stuff. What do I do with this one I like? I just wana sleep with her u know
 
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Am graful. And blessed that I'm alive and got famiy frriends l but just tryibg figure this girl out cuz she seemedto like me.I sorry for typos on a crappyu phone.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Forget about that bıtch, man, she bailed on you. NOT a good sign. Sorry to hear about your accident. Take care of yourself for a speedy recovery and don't even think about her. That should be your #1 priority right now.
 
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