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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do I nab this girl that had high interest but now feels lower since i had wreck?

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Long story short, I went on date with this girl and she showed high interest on our date all smiley and talking about all the different kind of things we can do, next week lets go bowling lets do this etc... I kissed her after date. Called her 4 days later and got next date setup. During this week I get in a head on collision car wreck. Broke arm and foot and knee and dislocated hip. I was in a coma 10 days ICU and couldnt contact obvious. My dad contacted her told her I was in hospital and she sent text i feel soo bad im sorry and where you at and stuff. she came visit me with a friend and saw me for minute and said shed come by herself next time and she did and we made out and laid in bed. I was tryin to finger her and she stopped me. We talked little bit and I was like wish I can have sex and not have this immobolizer she said after like 8 dates i laughed said its worth it. After that she wouldnt come see me anymore she said she missses me and was thinkin about me and wanted to come but worked overtime. I texted her that was leavin hospital soon I wanted you come visit she said yes! i said let me know when your cute butt is here. Didnt hear anything all week from her and I texted her when I got home 4th of july asked her what she up to and told her she should come see me at my dads because im home now and no reply. I called her sunday said whats up havent heard from you I guess I hit you up when im back on my feet. She call me later that night said she called other day i never got call and she was out of town that weekend and she said mom is on phone clicked over and said lemme call you back and didnt.

What do i do?? 1 Just dont talk to her until I heal or 2 keep in touch call every week try to get her to come over visit me? I would like to see her I just feel like she doesnt want to make effort advice please thanks!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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^ This, what Espi said.
first sorry about your crash bro.

thelonewolflegend said:
We talked little bit and I was like wish I can have sex and not have this immobolizer she said after like 8 dates i laughed said its worth it.
http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/23/wait-for-it/

Its not worth 8 dates honestly bro. She's lost interest when you've hit a low then she doesn't deserve you when you better.

*shrugs*
focus on getting better and find someone else/move on.
 
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Nd 8 date thibg just kinda joke she sayin but just meaning burnt by. Guys aThanks but ya don't understand she attractive and also there's anaother attractive girl doing same she just saw me and txted hope u get better n stuff. The girl I'm not into is the one keeps seeing me and stuff. What do I do with this one I like? I just wana sleep with her u know
 
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Am graful. And blessed that I'm alive and got famiy frriends l but just tryibg figure this girl out cuz she seemedto like me.I sorry for typos on a crappyu phone.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Forget about that bıtch, man, she bailed on you. NOT a good sign. Sorry to hear about your accident. Take care of yourself for a speedy recovery and don't even think about her. That should be your #1 priority right now.
 
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