"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do I nab this girl that had high interest but now feels lower since i had wreck?

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Long story short, I went on date with this girl and she showed high interest on our date all smiley and talking about all the different kind of things we can do, next week lets go bowling lets do this etc... I kissed her after date. Called her 4 days later and got next date setup. During this week I get in a head on collision car wreck. Broke arm and foot and knee and dislocated hip. I was in a coma 10 days ICU and couldnt contact obvious. My dad contacted her told her I was in hospital and she sent text i feel soo bad im sorry and where you at and stuff. she came visit me with a friend and saw me for minute and said shed come by herself next time and she did and we made out and laid in bed. I was tryin to finger her and she stopped me. We talked little bit and I was like wish I can have sex and not have this immobolizer she said after like 8 dates i laughed said its worth it. After that she wouldnt come see me anymore she said she missses me and was thinkin about me and wanted to come but worked overtime. I texted her that was leavin hospital soon I wanted you come visit she said yes! i said let me know when your cute butt is here. Didnt hear anything all week from her and I texted her when I got home 4th of july asked her what she up to and told her she should come see me at my dads because im home now and no reply. I called her sunday said whats up havent heard from you I guess I hit you up when im back on my feet. She call me later that night said she called other day i never got call and she was out of town that weekend and she said mom is on phone clicked over and said lemme call you back and didnt.

What do i do?? 1 Just dont talk to her until I heal or 2 keep in touch call every week try to get her to come over visit me? I would like to see her I just feel like she doesnt want to make effort advice please thanks!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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^ This, what Espi said.
first sorry about your crash bro.

thelonewolflegend said:
We talked little bit and I was like wish I can have sex and not have this immobolizer she said after like 8 dates i laughed said its worth it.
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http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/23/wait-for-it/

Its not worth 8 dates honestly bro. She's lost interest when you've hit a low then she doesn't deserve you when you better.

*shrugs*
focus on getting better and find someone else/move on.
 
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Nd 8 date thibg just kinda joke she sayin but just meaning burnt by. Guys aThanks but ya don't understand she attractive and also there's anaother attractive girl doing same she just saw me and txted hope u get better n stuff. The girl I'm not into is the one keeps seeing me and stuff. What do I do with this one I like? I just wana sleep with her u know
 
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Am graful. And blessed that I'm alive and got famiy frriends l but just tryibg figure this girl out cuz she seemedto like me.I sorry for typos on a crappyu phone.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Forget about that bıtch, man, she bailed on you. NOT a good sign. Sorry to hear about your accident. Take care of yourself for a speedy recovery and don't even think about her. That should be your #1 priority right now.
 
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