How do I make the girl wanna talk to me?

[Rint]

I'm fine with approuch but how do i make the girl want to keep hanging and talking to me after the first time we meet? I mean i always have to go up to her to talk to her how come she dousnt come to me?

 

[oakraiderz2]

Be entertaing and fun to be around. She could be shy.

EDIT: It could be because you can't spell and have poor grammar...

 

[DJ_in_making]

Originally posted by oakraiderz2

EDIT: It could be because you can't spell and have poor grammar...

yea, that's it. Why isn't that one in the bible?

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by DJ_in_making
yea, that's it. Why isn't that one in the bible?

You're right, im asking WAY TOO MUCH for people to spell correctly...my deepest apologizes.

 

[golfguy]

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
You're right, im asking WAY TOO MUCH for people to spell correctly...my deepest apologizes.

It's "You're right. I'm asking way too much for people to spell correctly. My deepest apologies"

I'm assuming that you did know those mistakes, and were mocking him.

You do have a point though. I personally don't mind the odd spelling and grammar mistakes as much as those ****ing tools who come on, write a post in 15 seconds, and are totally incoherent when you go to read it.

 

[Fitch]

Guys, stop complaining and get stick to the topic.

The best way to keep a girl's desire to spend time with you is by keeping her interested in you. This answer should be an obvious one.

How to do that? Be charming, funny, sweet, fun, and let her ENJOY your company...

 

[Holland]

Cause you're a guy and she's a girl. Off course it happens sometimes that a girl comes talking to you, but it's the exception. And even if they do come to you it's better when you go to her.
I had this happen a few days ago. There was this girl (well actually a woman (24 yo)) who I liked. I only knew her name and age and met her another time at that venue but for only 1-3 minutes or so. So I was kinda intimidated by talking to her since she's 5-6 years older and I didn't talk go talk to her for like 2,5 hours of being there. After that she came to me and said: "You sure are shy aren't you?"
Now, wouldn't it be better if I would've just talked to her first (even if it was just for a couple of minutes).
Off course, so that's what's going to happen from now on

 

[Viper]

Originally posted by Fitch
Guys, stop complaining and get stick to the topic.

The best way to keep a girl's desire to spend time with you is by keeping her interested in you. This answer should be an obvious one.

How to do that? Be charming, funny, sweet, fun, and let her ENJOY your company...

Easier said than done.

 

[Void]

Originally posted by Viper
Easier said than done.

Not for Fitch.

 

[Holland]

Easier said than done.

If you believe that it's going to be hard then it's gonna be hard.
If you just have fun, and enjoy yourself first it will be a lot easyer. Maybe you're trying to hard to be funny, charming and an enjoyment to be around. Or maybe you're not doing anything at all.
The fact is that you just got to be relaxed en laidback. You just have to make sure you enjoy the interaction YOURSELF.

 

[B-Lemond]

Originally posted by golfguy
It's "You're right. I'm asking way too much for people to spell correctly. My deepest apologies"

I'm assuming that you did know those mistakes, and were mocking him.

You do have a point though. I personally don't mind the odd spelling and grammar mistakes as much as those ****ing tools who come on, write a post in 15 seconds, and are totally incoherent when you go to read it.

It's "I'm assuming that you did know those mistakes, and we're mocking him."






To the original poster:

You have to be something that she misses when you leave. You have to give her something that most other people don't give her. That is being great company. Have FUN! If you are having FUN, she will see just how GREAT OF A TIME you are having and she will want to get in on that FUN, thus she will come to you. Just go out there and make sure YOU have FUN. Your FUN attitude will rub off on other people who will then want to get in on that FUN time.

For more info click here:
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

 

[Viper]

Originally posted by Holland
If you believe that it's going to be hard then it's gonna be hard.
If you just have fun, and enjoy yourself first it will be a lot easyer. Maybe you're trying to hard to be funny, charming and an enjoyment to be around. Or maybe you're not doing anything at all.
The fact is that you just got to be relaxed en laidback. You just have to make sure you enjoy the interaction YOURSELF.

Well, of course it's going to be hard, if you're not naturally a funny, I can be ****y, but being funny isn't one of my strong points and a lot of times when I'm ****y, it comes off as being assholish. But this isn't my topic to debate in.

 

[AC/DC]

Originally posted by bluelemond
It's "I'm assuming that you did know those mistakes, and we're mocking him."

You have conflicting tenses. "We were" is grammatically correct.

bluelemond, the rest of your post contained good advice.

 

[The Master Disaster]

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
You're right, im asking WAY TOO MUCH for people to spell correctly...my deepest apologizes.

Why do you critize when you cannot spell or use grammar correctly?

What is wrong with this you may ask?

You're right,
(Complete sentence, contractions are bad English.)
CORRECT: You are right.

im asking WAY TOO MUCH for people to spell correctly... (Capitalize your first word, contractions need ', again contractions are bad English, do not capatilize words for no reason, and your ... does not make sense because it is a complete sentence and you are not leaving out anything.)
CORRECT: I am asking way too much for people to spell correctly.

my deepest apologizes.
(Again capitalize your first letter in the sentence, however, you did use an implied subject and verb correctly, but "apologizes?" I do not get it. Do you mean apologies? Apologizes doesn't not exist. Ex: "I apologizes" or "We apologizes" It do not exist. I believe you are looking for a plural noun "Apologies.")
CORRECT: My deepest apologies.

CORRECT: You are right. I am asking way too much for people to spell correctly. My deepest apologies.

That was a complete waiste of my time.

 

[AC/DC]

Originally posted by The Master Disaster
Why do you critize when you cannot spell or use grammar correctly?

What is wrong with this you may ask?

You're right,
(Complete sentence, contractions are bad English.)
CORRECT: You are right.

im asking WAY TOO MUCH for people to spell correctly... (Capitalize your first word, contractions need ', again contractions are bad English, do not capatilize words for no reason, and your ... does not make sense because it is a complete sentence and you are not leaving out anything.)
CORRECT: I am asking way too much for people to spell correctly.

my deepest apologizes.
(Again capitalize your first letter in the sentence, however, you did use an implied subject and verb correctly, but "apologizes?" I do not get it. Do you mean apologies? Apologizes doesn't not exist. Ex: "I apologizes" or "We apologizes" It do not exist. I believe you are looking for a plural noun "Apologies.")
CORRECT: My deepest apologies.

CORRECT: You are right. I am asking way too much for people to spell correctly. My deepest apologies.

That was a complete waiste of my time.

Was it really necessary to point all that out?

 

[superman2k6]

^i agree, it seems that in every e-beef i come across in any forum, someone will quote a post and break it down word-for-word and on top of that, will say something about the person's grammar

lame..

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

Originally posted by The Master Disaster
That was a complete waiste of my time. [/B]

waste*

People, please stop correcting people... especially if you can't correct them correctly.

(Sorry, I just had to.)

 

[The Master Disaster]

Originally posted by AC/DC
Was it really necessary to point all that out?

No.

 

[The Master Disaster]

double post.

 

[AC/DC]

Originally posted by The Master Disaster
No.

lol

I think he spelled "waste" wrong on purpose.. man, you guys are dense.