"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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how do i kino a girl in a coffee place when i'm sitting opposite and she's too far?

big weezy

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i have this problem a lot in starbucks.. i try to game a girl and immediately use some of my 1st date routine for kino but if i'm sitting opposite her at a distance it's difficult for me to kino cos i cant reach. she's not leaning forward and i dont want to either as it'll make me look too keen body language wise.

how do i get the kino going immediately if she's like 4 feet away from me?

like what do i do?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ARrocket

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Get your coffee to go and take a walk.

If you insist on sitting in the coffee shop, and she's too far away, you can either:

1) Move closer

2) Wait until you leave.
 

Deadly_Ripped

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Yeah I've got to agree with ARocket. Every coffee date that I've ever gone on has only taken place inside a coffee shop for a few minutes - while getting coffee.

Then it's either a random walk or a walk to somewhere else or whatever but it never stays in the coffee shop, unless it's an LTR. If the tables are round then you can sit sort-of to the side of her, which would make you a little closer.
 

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First of all, don't do coffee dates if you can help it. Go for drinks (ie, alcohol). Remember boys and girls: coffee == boring, alcohol == sex.

But I won't be a jerk, when I've done coffee dates we've never sat in the coffee shop, we always walk around. Walk around the mall, go for a walk in the park, along the river, whatever. The coffee shop is only a stop on your date, not the destination.

But remember, alcohol == sex!!!!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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big weezy

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f283000 said:
Why are you taking girls to coffee shops? :crazy:

Take her for a few drinks. If you're not at the drinking age take her to billiards/bowling where you can kino easily.
no no i'm not taking them there for a date, they are already there, im trying to pick them up by gaming them but i want to start the kino straight away to get a head start.
 
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