"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how do i kino a girl in a coffee place when i'm sitting opposite and she's too far?

big weezy

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i have this problem a lot in starbucks.. i try to game a girl and immediately use some of my 1st date routine for kino but if i'm sitting opposite her at a distance it's difficult for me to kino cos i cant reach. she's not leaning forward and i dont want to either as it'll make me look too keen body language wise.

how do i get the kino going immediately if she's like 4 feet away from me?

like what do i do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

ARrocket

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Get your coffee to go and take a walk.

If you insist on sitting in the coffee shop, and she's too far away, you can either:

1) Move closer

2) Wait until you leave.
 

Deadly_Ripped

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Yeah I've got to agree with ARocket. Every coffee date that I've ever gone on has only taken place inside a coffee shop for a few minutes - while getting coffee.

Then it's either a random walk or a walk to somewhere else or whatever but it never stays in the coffee shop, unless it's an LTR. If the tables are round then you can sit sort-of to the side of her, which would make you a little closer.
 

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First of all, don't do coffee dates if you can help it. Go for drinks (ie, alcohol). Remember boys and girls: coffee == boring, alcohol == sex.

But I won't be a jerk, when I've done coffee dates we've never sat in the coffee shop, we always walk around. Walk around the mall, go for a walk in the park, along the river, whatever. The coffee shop is only a stop on your date, not the destination.

But remember, alcohol == sex!!!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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big weezy

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f283000 said:
Why are you taking girls to coffee shops? :crazy:

Take her for a few drinks. If you're not at the drinking age take her to billiards/bowling where you can kino easily.
no no i'm not taking them there for a date, they are already there, im trying to pick them up by gaming them but i want to start the kino straight away to get a head start.
 
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