"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how do i kino a girl in a coffee place when i'm sitting opposite and she's too far?

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i have this problem a lot in starbucks.. i try to game a girl and immediately use some of my 1st date routine for kino but if i'm sitting opposite her at a distance it's difficult for me to kino cos i cant reach. she's not leaning forward and i dont want to either as it'll make me look too keen body language wise.

how do i get the kino going immediately if she's like 4 feet away from me?

like what do i do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Get your coffee to go and take a walk.

If you insist on sitting in the coffee shop, and she's too far away, you can either:

1) Move closer

2) Wait until you leave.
 
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Yeah I've got to agree with ARocket. Every coffee date that I've ever gone on has only taken place inside a coffee shop for a few minutes - while getting coffee.

Then it's either a random walk or a walk to somewhere else or whatever but it never stays in the coffee shop, unless it's an LTR. If the tables are round then you can sit sort-of to the side of her, which would make you a little closer.
 
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First of all, don't do coffee dates if you can help it. Go for drinks (ie, alcohol). Remember boys and girls: coffee == boring, alcohol == sex.

But I won't be a jerk, when I've done coffee dates we've never sat in the coffee shop, we always walk around. Walk around the mall, go for a walk in the park, along the river, whatever. The coffee shop is only a stop on your date, not the destination.

But remember, alcohol == sex!!!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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f283000 said:
Why are you taking girls to coffee shops? :crazy:

Take her for a few drinks. If you're not at the drinking age take her to billiards/bowling where you can kino easily.
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no no i'm not taking them there for a date, they are already there, im trying to pick them up by gaming them but i want to start the kino straight away to get a head start.
 
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