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Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how do i kino a girl in a coffee place when i'm sitting opposite and she's too far?

big weezy

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i have this problem a lot in starbucks.. i try to game a girl and immediately use some of my 1st date routine for kino but if i'm sitting opposite her at a distance it's difficult for me to kino cos i cant reach. she's not leaning forward and i dont want to either as it'll make me look too keen body language wise.

how do i get the kino going immediately if she's like 4 feet away from me?

like what do i do?
 

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Get your coffee to go and take a walk.

If you insist on sitting in the coffee shop, and she's too far away, you can either:

1) Move closer

2) Wait until you leave.
 

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Yeah I've got to agree with ARocket. Every coffee date that I've ever gone on has only taken place inside a coffee shop for a few minutes - while getting coffee.

Then it's either a random walk or a walk to somewhere else or whatever but it never stays in the coffee shop, unless it's an LTR. If the tables are round then you can sit sort-of to the side of her, which would make you a little closer.
 

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First of all, don't do coffee dates if you can help it. Go for drinks (ie, alcohol). Remember boys and girls: coffee == boring, alcohol == sex.

But I won't be a jerk, when I've done coffee dates we've never sat in the coffee shop, we always walk around. Walk around the mall, go for a walk in the park, along the river, whatever. The coffee shop is only a stop on your date, not the destination.

But remember, alcohol == sex!!!!!
 

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She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

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big weezy

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f283000 said:
Why are you taking girls to coffee shops? :crazy:

Take her for a few drinks. If you're not at the drinking age take her to billiards/bowling where you can kino easily.
no no i'm not taking them there for a date, they are already there, im trying to pick them up by gaming them but i want to start the kino straight away to get a head start.
 
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