"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How do I handle this

GearsGod310

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One of my plates recently became my girl friend was my plate for 6 months. She asked me to be her BF and I said yes. We been in a relationship for a week. Right now calls me at 1:00 in the morning. Asking me to call a girl to leave her alone.
Guess when we were dating and werent that serious yet she had something going on with some dude but that dude had a girlfriend.
Called the chick she was super agressive but I remained calm through it all ended up talking on the phone with the chick for like 3 hours and we became cool lol. Tryna get her side of the story. Told me she found messages of her bf and my gf talking back in april, may.. (when I wasn't that serious with her yet)... and that dude had my gf saved under a guys name... so obviously pissed his gf off.. gonna call my gf tomorrow morning... but i'm kinda pissed off she threw all this bullsh1t for me to handle... at 1:00 in the morning and then she goes to sleep. Like wtf... was really tryna give this relationship sh1t a shot but I'm kinda getting over it..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kitttydiet88

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How to handle this situation?

Simple. You don’t. Any time a grown ass person asks you to do something he/she is perfectly capable of doing themselves, the only correct answer is ‘b****, I’m not your secretary”.

If you don’t respect yourself, no one else will.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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