"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do I handle this

GearsGod310

GearsGod310

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One of my plates recently became my girl friend was my plate for 6 months. She asked me to be her BF and I said yes. We been in a relationship for a week. Right now calls me at 1:00 in the morning. Asking me to call a girl to leave her alone.
Guess when we were dating and werent that serious yet she had something going on with some dude but that dude had a girlfriend.
Called the chick she was super agressive but I remained calm through it all ended up talking on the phone with the chick for like 3 hours and we became cool lol. Tryna get her side of the story. Told me she found messages of her bf and my gf talking back in april, may.. (when I wasn't that serious with her yet)... and that dude had my gf saved under a guys name... so obviously pissed his gf off.. gonna call my gf tomorrow morning... but i'm kinda pissed off she threw all this bullsh1t for me to handle... at 1:00 in the morning and then she goes to sleep. Like wtf... was really tryna give this relationship sh1t a shot but I'm kinda getting over it..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kitttydiet88

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How to handle this situation?

Simple. You don’t. Any time a grown ass person asks you to do something he/she is perfectly capable of doing themselves, the only correct answer is ‘b****, I’m not your secretary”.

If you don’t respect yourself, no one else will.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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