"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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how do i get this girl?

wuddupboy

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hey, I've been checking out this forums for a long time now, but never did register. Well.. now i have, and I want to know what should I do?
[im 16 BTW!]
Um the situation is like this,
This girl I like i went out with her and some friends today, I don't think she notices me that much..

She was talking with her boyfriend all night when we were walking home,
until awhile later when only me and her was alone [the other boys went home]
it was almost 12:00 A.M, we were walking and talking about school,
etc i remember i patted her once on the head and she went like Ow! I don't know you that much why you hit me!
Or something like that..
Did i do a bad thing? because she didn't to really mind. Her boyfriend is like 18! Wow! What the hell, and she's going to his house at the moment.
I don't know what the hell they have planned out this late >.>, um, any suggestions how do I get her?

My apologies if this is sloppy, its late, and was a very tiring night.. Thanks Sosuave members!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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naes420

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wuddupboy said:
hey, I've been checking out this forums for a long time now, but never did register. Well.. now i have, and I want to know what should I do?
[im 16 BTW!]
Um the situation is like this,
This girl I like i went out with her and some friends today, I don't think she notices me that much..

She was talking with her boyfriend all night when we were walking home,
until awhile later when only me and her was alone [the other boys went home]
it was almost 12:00 A.M, we were walking and talking about school,
etc i remember i patted her once on the head and she went like Ow! I don't know you that much why you hit me!
Or something like that..
Did i do a bad thing? because she didn't to really mind. Her boyfriend is like 18! Wow! What the hell, and she's going to his house at the moment.
I don't know what the hell they have planned out this late >.>, um, any suggestions how do I get her?

My apologies if this is sloppy, its late, and was a very tiring night.. Thanks Sosuave members!
she has a fuking boyfriends man let her be and if she dont notice you mcuh how the hell are you so in love with her...

but seriosuly shes got a guy man how wuld u feel if she was yours and some guy was trying to get her... wait until they break it then u can do whatever u want
 

wuddupboy

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She's 15, with a guy who's 18 years old..
It seems to me the guys messing around with her/ her confused.
She might not notice me much, so isn't this why I'm trying to get her to notice me, get her to be my girl? enough said.. =\
 

naes420

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thats not a big deal her boyfriend is 18..alot of girls date older men..my friends did (whos actauly 16 (but 17 now)) and she fell so despretly in love that shes still in love with him after 4 months afeter they broke up...age is not a factor in alot of relationships
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Heres my advice:

Forget about her She already has someone. Go meet other women.
 

Nexxus

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yo dude, why didn't u go for her when u 2 were alone??? u cudve stopped her goin to her bf's but now it's too late
she's ****in the bf and now u gonna have to start all over again... just **** another *****
 

Poonani Maker

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I court 19 year olds and I'm 28.
 
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Never hit a girl on the head to get her attention - they don't like that for some reason! :rolleyes:

Poonani Maker said:
I court 19 year olds and I'm 28.
You chicken - why not go after 18 year olds?
 
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