"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how do i get this girl?

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hey, I've been checking out this forums for a long time now, but never did register. Well.. now i have, and I want to know what should I do?
[im 16 BTW!]
Um the situation is like this,
This girl I like i went out with her and some friends today, I don't think she notices me that much..

She was talking with her boyfriend all night when we were walking home,
until awhile later when only me and her was alone [the other boys went home]
it was almost 12:00 A.M, we were walking and talking about school,
etc i remember i patted her once on the head and she went like Ow! I don't know you that much why you hit me!
Or something like that..
Did i do a bad thing? because she didn't to really mind. Her boyfriend is like 18! Wow! What the hell, and she's going to his house at the moment.
I don't know what the hell they have planned out this late >.>, um, any suggestions how do I get her?

My apologies if this is sloppy, its late, and was a very tiring night.. Thanks Sosuave members!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wuddupboy said:
hey, I've been checking out this forums for a long time now, but never did register. Well.. now i have, and I want to know what should I do?
[im 16 BTW!]
Um the situation is like this,
This girl I like i went out with her and some friends today, I don't think she notices me that much..

She was talking with her boyfriend all night when we were walking home,
until awhile later when only me and her was alone [the other boys went home]
it was almost 12:00 A.M, we were walking and talking about school,
etc i remember i patted her once on the head and she went like Ow! I don't know you that much why you hit me!
Or something like that..
Did i do a bad thing? because she didn't to really mind. Her boyfriend is like 18! Wow! What the hell, and she's going to his house at the moment.
I don't know what the hell they have planned out this late >.>, um, any suggestions how do I get her?

My apologies if this is sloppy, its late, and was a very tiring night.. Thanks Sosuave members!
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she has a fuking boyfriends man let her be and if she dont notice you mcuh how the hell are you so in love with her...

but seriosuly shes got a guy man how wuld u feel if she was yours and some guy was trying to get her... wait until they break it then u can do whatever u want
 
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She's 15, with a guy who's 18 years old..
It seems to me the guys messing around with her/ her confused.
She might not notice me much, so isn't this why I'm trying to get her to notice me, get her to be my girl? enough said.. =\
 
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thats not a big deal her boyfriend is 18..alot of girls date older men..my friends did (whos actauly 16 (but 17 now)) and she fell so despretly in love that shes still in love with him after 4 months afeter they broke up...age is not a factor in alot of relationships
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Heres my advice:

Forget about her She already has someone. Go meet other women.
 
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yo dude, why didn't u go for her when u 2 were alone??? u cudve stopped her goin to her bf's but now it's too late
she's ****in the bf and now u gonna have to start all over again... just **** another *****
 
Poonani Maker

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I court 19 year olds and I'm 28.
 
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Last Man Standing

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Never hit a girl on the head to get her attention - they don't like that for some reason! :rolleyes:

Poonani Maker said:
I court 19 year olds and I'm 28.
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You chicken - why not go after 18 year olds?
 
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