"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how do i get this girl?

wuddupboy

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hey, I've been checking out this forums for a long time now, but never did register. Well.. now i have, and I want to know what should I do?
[im 16 BTW!]
Um the situation is like this,
This girl I like i went out with her and some friends today, I don't think she notices me that much..

She was talking with her boyfriend all night when we were walking home,
until awhile later when only me and her was alone [the other boys went home]
it was almost 12:00 A.M, we were walking and talking about school,
etc i remember i patted her once on the head and she went like Ow! I don't know you that much why you hit me!
Or something like that..
Did i do a bad thing? because she didn't to really mind. Her boyfriend is like 18! Wow! What the hell, and she's going to his house at the moment.
I don't know what the hell they have planned out this late >.>, um, any suggestions how do I get her?

My apologies if this is sloppy, its late, and was a very tiring night.. Thanks Sosuave members!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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naes420

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wuddupboy said:
hey, I've been checking out this forums for a long time now, but never did register. Well.. now i have, and I want to know what should I do?
[im 16 BTW!]
Um the situation is like this,
This girl I like i went out with her and some friends today, I don't think she notices me that much..

She was talking with her boyfriend all night when we were walking home,
until awhile later when only me and her was alone [the other boys went home]
it was almost 12:00 A.M, we were walking and talking about school,
etc i remember i patted her once on the head and she went like Ow! I don't know you that much why you hit me!
Or something like that..
Did i do a bad thing? because she didn't to really mind. Her boyfriend is like 18! Wow! What the hell, and she's going to his house at the moment.
I don't know what the hell they have planned out this late >.>, um, any suggestions how do I get her?

My apologies if this is sloppy, its late, and was a very tiring night.. Thanks Sosuave members!
she has a fuking boyfriends man let her be and if she dont notice you mcuh how the hell are you so in love with her...

but seriosuly shes got a guy man how wuld u feel if she was yours and some guy was trying to get her... wait until they break it then u can do whatever u want
 

wuddupboy

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She's 15, with a guy who's 18 years old..
It seems to me the guys messing around with her/ her confused.
She might not notice me much, so isn't this why I'm trying to get her to notice me, get her to be my girl? enough said.. =\
 

naes420

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thats not a big deal her boyfriend is 18..alot of girls date older men..my friends did (whos actauly 16 (but 17 now)) and she fell so despretly in love that shes still in love with him after 4 months afeter they broke up...age is not a factor in alot of relationships
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Heres my advice:

Forget about her She already has someone. Go meet other women.
 

Nexxus

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yo dude, why didn't u go for her when u 2 were alone??? u cudve stopped her goin to her bf's but now it's too late
she's ****in the bf and now u gonna have to start all over again... just **** another *****
 

Poonani Maker

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I court 19 year olds and I'm 28.
 
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Never hit a girl on the head to get her attention - they don't like that for some reason! :rolleyes:

Poonani Maker said:
I court 19 year olds and I'm 28.
You chicken - why not go after 18 year olds?
 
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