"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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how do i get this girl?

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hey, I've been checking out this forums for a long time now, but never did register. Well.. now i have, and I want to know what should I do?
[im 16 BTW!]
Um the situation is like this,
This girl I like i went out with her and some friends today, I don't think she notices me that much..

She was talking with her boyfriend all night when we were walking home,
until awhile later when only me and her was alone [the other boys went home]
it was almost 12:00 A.M, we were walking and talking about school,
etc i remember i patted her once on the head and she went like Ow! I don't know you that much why you hit me!
Or something like that..
Did i do a bad thing? because she didn't to really mind. Her boyfriend is like 18! Wow! What the hell, and she's going to his house at the moment.
I don't know what the hell they have planned out this late >.>, um, any suggestions how do I get her?

My apologies if this is sloppy, its late, and was a very tiring night.. Thanks Sosuave members!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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wuddupboy said:
hey, I've been checking out this forums for a long time now, but never did register. Well.. now i have, and I want to know what should I do?
[im 16 BTW!]
Um the situation is like this,
This girl I like i went out with her and some friends today, I don't think she notices me that much..

She was talking with her boyfriend all night when we were walking home,
until awhile later when only me and her was alone [the other boys went home]
it was almost 12:00 A.M, we were walking and talking about school,
etc i remember i patted her once on the head and she went like Ow! I don't know you that much why you hit me!
Or something like that..
Did i do a bad thing? because she didn't to really mind. Her boyfriend is like 18! Wow! What the hell, and she's going to his house at the moment.
I don't know what the hell they have planned out this late >.>, um, any suggestions how do I get her?

My apologies if this is sloppy, its late, and was a very tiring night.. Thanks Sosuave members!
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she has a fuking boyfriends man let her be and if she dont notice you mcuh how the hell are you so in love with her...

but seriosuly shes got a guy man how wuld u feel if she was yours and some guy was trying to get her... wait until they break it then u can do whatever u want
 
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She's 15, with a guy who's 18 years old..
It seems to me the guys messing around with her/ her confused.
She might not notice me much, so isn't this why I'm trying to get her to notice me, get her to be my girl? enough said.. =\
 
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thats not a big deal her boyfriend is 18..alot of girls date older men..my friends did (whos actauly 16 (but 17 now)) and she fell so despretly in love that shes still in love with him after 4 months afeter they broke up...age is not a factor in alot of relationships
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Heres my advice:

Forget about her She already has someone. Go meet other women.
 
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yo dude, why didn't u go for her when u 2 were alone??? u cudve stopped her goin to her bf's but now it's too late
she's ****in the bf and now u gonna have to start all over again... just **** another *****
 
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I court 19 year olds and I'm 28.
 
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Never hit a girl on the head to get her attention - they don't like that for some reason! :rolleyes:

Poonani Maker said:
I court 19 year olds and I'm 28.
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You chicken - why not go after 18 year olds?
 
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