"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How do I get rid of an AW (at work) without seeming an A-hole?

AmIAFC

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I've tried to ignore this wench, but she still does stupid sh** in an attempt to get my attention. Okay, so we were intimate at ONE point, but I've given her enough clues that I'm not interested in pursuing anything more with her. She keeps doing dumb sh** like hiding from someone using my office, looking into my office as she's just "walking by," and coming up with lame excuses to talk to me.

I don't want to report her to her boss -- she isn't really doing anything against company policy -- so what are my options?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Smooth Player 056

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Tell her politely: To cut it out or you are going to report her.

If she's a normal adult...she will realize she may get fired over this childish behavior...even if its not SPECIFICALLY against company policy.


Cheers

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ethnomethodologist

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lol ,is she a 180 pound HB5? I get those a lot as well. Just make sure that she knows you are JUST friends, whenever she displays this behaviour, ask her to come talk to you. Than ask her if she knows what "that HB9 you hang with on the weekends" is doing these days and what she is doing later.

She'll start avoiding you so she doesn't ruin her chances with you. Double entendre to kill her desperation and solve your problem.

The only times she will flirt with you from here on out is when you initiate. Even then, keep making her fall back so she doesn't tool herself.

Be careful though, she might be a crazy woman, and she may just corner you when you are alone. Hehe, kinky forbidden sex.
 

KontrollerX

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The quickest and most effective way to get rid of an HPD is to tell her you love her and be genuine about it.

They hate that and will abandon you as a result.

This is understandably not a desireable option for you and even though I am well read on these people its the only thing I've learned of thus far that gets rid of them.

The book Emotional Vampires has a section on HPD's in it and how to make them do what you want them to do so you could get that if you have the money.

Its only about $8 on Amazon.com.

I would of bought it already and told you what it said to do but my credit card has been acting screwy and as a result I couldn't get it.
 

Juan_Man

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If she puts out, then send her to me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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