"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How do I get rid of an AW (at work) without seeming an A-hole?

AmIAFC

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I've tried to ignore this wench, but she still does stupid sh** in an attempt to get my attention. Okay, so we were intimate at ONE point, but I've given her enough clues that I'm not interested in pursuing anything more with her. She keeps doing dumb sh** like hiding from someone using my office, looking into my office as she's just "walking by," and coming up with lame excuses to talk to me.

I don't want to report her to her boss -- she isn't really doing anything against company policy -- so what are my options?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Smooth Player 056

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Tell her politely: To cut it out or you are going to report her.

If she's a normal adult...she will realize she may get fired over this childish behavior...even if its not SPECIFICALLY against company policy.


Cheers

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ethnomethodologist

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lol ,is she a 180 pound HB5? I get those a lot as well. Just make sure that she knows you are JUST friends, whenever she displays this behaviour, ask her to come talk to you. Than ask her if she knows what "that HB9 you hang with on the weekends" is doing these days and what she is doing later.

She'll start avoiding you so she doesn't ruin her chances with you. Double entendre to kill her desperation and solve your problem.

The only times she will flirt with you from here on out is when you initiate. Even then, keep making her fall back so she doesn't tool herself.

Be careful though, she might be a crazy woman, and she may just corner you when you are alone. Hehe, kinky forbidden sex.
 

KontrollerX

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The quickest and most effective way to get rid of an HPD is to tell her you love her and be genuine about it.

They hate that and will abandon you as a result.

This is understandably not a desireable option for you and even though I am well read on these people its the only thing I've learned of thus far that gets rid of them.

The book Emotional Vampires has a section on HPD's in it and how to make them do what you want them to do so you could get that if you have the money.

Its only about $8 on Amazon.com.

I would of bought it already and told you what it said to do but my credit card has been acting screwy and as a result I couldn't get it.
 

Juan_Man

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If she puts out, then send her to me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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