"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

How do I get rid of an AW (at work) without seeming an A-hole?

AmIAFC

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 19, 2005
Messages
314
Reaction score
7
Age
48
I've tried to ignore this wench, but she still does stupid sh** in an attempt to get my attention. Okay, so we were intimate at ONE point, but I've given her enough clues that I'm not interested in pursuing anything more with her. She keeps doing dumb sh** like hiding from someone using my office, looking into my office as she's just "walking by," and coming up with lame excuses to talk to me.

I don't want to report her to her boss -- she isn't really doing anything against company policy -- so what are my options?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Smooth Player 056

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 6, 2005
Messages
868
Reaction score
3
Tell her politely: To cut it out or you are going to report her.

If she's a normal adult...she will realize she may get fired over this childish behavior...even if its not SPECIFICALLY against company policy.


Cheers

-s
-------------------------------

4 WEEK ULTIMATE BOOTCAMP!!!! at www.thesexxx.com
 

ethnomethodologist

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 2, 2006
Messages
1,180
Reaction score
2
Location
Out of the box
lol ,is she a 180 pound HB5? I get those a lot as well. Just make sure that she knows you are JUST friends, whenever she displays this behaviour, ask her to come talk to you. Than ask her if she knows what "that HB9 you hang with on the weekends" is doing these days and what she is doing later.

She'll start avoiding you so she doesn't ruin her chances with you. Double entendre to kill her desperation and solve your problem.

The only times she will flirt with you from here on out is when you initiate. Even then, keep making her fall back so she doesn't tool herself.

Be careful though, she might be a crazy woman, and she may just corner you when you are alone. Hehe, kinky forbidden sex.
 

KontrollerX

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 11, 2005
Messages
4,476
Reaction score
182
The quickest and most effective way to get rid of an HPD is to tell her you love her and be genuine about it.

They hate that and will abandon you as a result.

This is understandably not a desireable option for you and even though I am well read on these people its the only thing I've learned of thus far that gets rid of them.

The book Emotional Vampires has a section on HPD's in it and how to make them do what you want them to do so you could get that if you have the money.

Its only about $8 on Amazon.com.

I would of bought it already and told you what it said to do but my credit card has been acting screwy and as a result I couldn't get it.
 

Juan_Man

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 3, 2001
Messages
1,103
Reaction score
28
If she puts out, then send her to me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Top