i'm a loner and i want to change all that. i don't have many friends. my closest friends live in another start so i can't hang out with them. i have call others to hang out but they are all flakers. they just sit at home staring at their computer. i want to go out like to the bars or clubs but there is no one to come along. i'm not confident enough to go alone and meet new people. plus, a lonely guy who is picking up chicks comes off as a creepy guy. how can i solve this problem? i need a wingman.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
how do i get out of loners-ville?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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Don Juan
MAybe you should join a sport team or sometype of club so you can make new friends.Dude04 where do you live?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Get some co-worker friends, then?
Most churches would let you in regardless of if you're religious or not. So long as you don't make an ass out of yourself lol. I find people there are usually pretty open to making friends. But, granted, they also make laaaaaame wingmen most of the time lol.
In anycase, all I'm trying to convey is you should join some sort of group. Whether it's church, a club, a sports team, or whatever, just get into a social situation.
Most churches would let you in regardless of if you're religious or not. So long as you don't make an ass out of yourself lol. I find people there are usually pretty open to making friends. But, granted, they also make laaaaaame wingmen most of the time lol.
In anycase, all I'm trying to convey is you should join some sort of group. Whether it's church, a club, a sports team, or whatever, just get into a social situation.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
First of all, picking up girls by yourself isn't creepy at all if you know how to do it. I actually preffer to do it solo than with a wing. The trick is not letting the girls know that you're actually trying to pick them up. Instead, just try to strike up a convo with them. Something very non-threatening and you can go on from there.
You should try meetup.com its a website where people of different interests set up groups and meet once in a while. There are even pua groups, and social groups.
You should try meetup.com its a website where people of different interests set up groups and meet once in a while. There are even pua groups, and social groups.