“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How do I get my GF to Embrace Polygamy?

jdb

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As the title states, we are both nearing our 30's.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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EyeBRollin

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Don't engage into a relationship with her. Dump her. Tell her you want to date other women, but you still love her and want her to spend time with you. She'll either move on or continue sleeping with you. You have to give her that choice though.
 

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You can't legally get your GF to embrace sh!t. You can express you'd like it or ask her if she's ok with it, but if she isn't then you just have to accept that. Which leaves you with 2 choices unless she's disgusted that you'd want it and leaves, that is to stay with her knowing it's not gonna happen or leave her to make it happen.

It's a risk no matter how you twist and turn the issue. I doubt any answer here will satisfy you, because there's no guaranteed way to make it happen.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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daddymonsterpoodle

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It is something that needs to be talked about BEFORE she becomes your girlfriend and after you have started dating. Even then, even if she is OK with it she might still freak out when she realises you are actually ****ing someone else (the voice of bitter experience).
 

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Yeah, if shloves me enough she will accept it
 

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Yeah, if shloves me enough she will accept it
LMAO! Yeah OK...basically you should have found this out before she became your GF...you are doing sh!t ass backwards bro.
 

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How long have you been seeing her?

Look... if you've been exclusive for any length of time you will NOT get her to go along with it. If you want open relationships with multiple women, you need to dump her and go look for women that are. You have to make it clear up front that this is who you are and what you want. There are plenty of women that will be happy doing this, but my guess is your exclusive GF now isn't one of them if she hasn't brought this up herself.
 
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