"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do I get my GF to Embrace Polygamy?

jdb

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As the title states, we are both nearing our 30's.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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EyeBRollin

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Don't engage into a relationship with her. Dump her. Tell her you want to date other women, but you still love her and want her to spend time with you. She'll either move on or continue sleeping with you. You have to give her that choice though.
 

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You can't legally get your GF to embrace sh!t. You can express you'd like it or ask her if she's ok with it, but if she isn't then you just have to accept that. Which leaves you with 2 choices unless she's disgusted that you'd want it and leaves, that is to stay with her knowing it's not gonna happen or leave her to make it happen.

It's a risk no matter how you twist and turn the issue. I doubt any answer here will satisfy you, because there's no guaranteed way to make it happen.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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daddymonsterpoodle

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It is something that needs to be talked about BEFORE she becomes your girlfriend and after you have started dating. Even then, even if she is OK with it she might still freak out when she realises you are actually ****ing someone else (the voice of bitter experience).
 

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Yeah, if shloves me enough she will accept it
 

marmel75

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Yeah, if shloves me enough she will accept it
LMAO! Yeah OK...basically you should have found this out before she became your GF...you are doing sh!t ass backwards bro.
 

RangerMIke

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How long have you been seeing her?

Look... if you've been exclusive for any length of time you will NOT get her to go along with it. If you want open relationships with multiple women, you need to dump her and go look for women that are. You have to make it clear up front that this is who you are and what you want. There are plenty of women that will be happy doing this, but my guess is your exclusive GF now isn't one of them if she hasn't brought this up herself.
 
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