"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How do I convince a girl to lose weight??
- Thread starter I love Hyori Lee
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
The sh1t is funny because its true! Women are as stupid as we like to think that they are, especially about their bodies. Many will stand in a mirror and critique their bodies daily.dadmonson said:
Tricking them is a waste of time, pointing out a "deficiency" like this has no good ending. Either they want to get fit themselves or they won't do it. Even if they try to do it for her man's benefit, the chances of her sticking with it is very low. We're talking about having a person changing their lifestyle, it's not an easy thing to do and not everyone can do it.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Maybe so but it's easier than doing what's necessary to be fit and thin.Shiftkey said:
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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PeterNorthisawesome said:Actually I got a WICKED good one, next time you come back from the gym tell her that while you were working this FEMALE TRAINER gave you some pointers of how to workout and did it for free! She'll be so jealous and want to investigate by following you to the gym everytime.
The beaner here is right. Jealousy is a wonderful motivator.
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You forget that we're talking about women here (no offense ladies), they respond to such pressure differently than men. The way an average woman acts about their body image you can do more harm than good by pushing them or giving them ultimatums. SomShiftkey said:
e women will show you a good face while they're with you. They'll work out like a manic banshee but afterward after you are gone they could inhale a pint of Häagen Dazs like their lives depended on it. Unless they choose to want to do it, any pushing will at best be short lived.