"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How do I convince a girl to lose weight??
- Thread starter I love Hyori Lee
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Francisco d'Anconia
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The sh1t is funny because its true! Women are as stupid as we like to think that they are, especially about their bodies. Many will stand in a mirror and critique their bodies daily.dadmonson said:
Tricking them is a waste of time, pointing out a "deficiency" like this has no good ending. Either they want to get fit themselves or they won't do it. Even if they try to do it for her man's benefit, the chances of her sticking with it is very low. We're talking about having a person changing their lifestyle, it's not an easy thing to do and not everyone can do it.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Maybe so but it's easier than doing what's necessary to be fit and thin.Shiftkey said:
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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PeterNorthisawesome said:Actually I got a WICKED good one, next time you come back from the gym tell her that while you were working this FEMALE TRAINER gave you some pointers of how to workout and did it for free! She'll be so jealous and want to investigate by following you to the gym everytime.
The beaner here is right. Jealousy is a wonderful motivator.
Shiftkey
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Francisco d'Anconia
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You forget that we're talking about women here (no offense ladies), they respond to such pressure differently than men. The way an average woman acts about their body image you can do more harm than good by pushing them or giving them ultimatums. SomShiftkey said:
e women will show you a good face while they're with you. They'll work out like a manic banshee but afterward after you are gone they could inhale a pint of Häagen Dazs like their lives depended on it. Unless they choose to want to do it, any pushing will at best be short lived.