"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How do I convince a girl to lose weight??
- Thread starter I love Hyori Lee
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
The sh1t is funny because its true! Women are as stupid as we like to think that they are, especially about their bodies. Many will stand in a mirror and critique their bodies daily.dadmonson said:
Tricking them is a waste of time, pointing out a "deficiency" like this has no good ending. Either they want to get fit themselves or they won't do it. Even if they try to do it for her man's benefit, the chances of her sticking with it is very low. We're talking about having a person changing their lifestyle, it's not an easy thing to do and not everyone can do it.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Maybe so but it's easier than doing what's necessary to be fit and thin.Shiftkey said:
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PeterNorthisawesome
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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PeterNorthisawesome said:Actually I got a WICKED good one, next time you come back from the gym tell her that while you were working this FEMALE TRAINER gave you some pointers of how to workout and did it for free! She'll be so jealous and want to investigate by following you to the gym everytime.
The beaner here is right. Jealousy is a wonderful motivator.
Shiftkey
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You forget that we're talking about women here (no offense ladies), they respond to such pressure differently than men. The way an average woman acts about their body image you can do more harm than good by pushing them or giving them ultimatums. SomShiftkey said:
e women will show you a good face while they're with you. They'll work out like a manic banshee but afterward after you are gone they could inhale a pint of Häagen Dazs like their lives depended on it. Unless they choose to want to do it, any pushing will at best be short lived.