Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How do I convince a girl to lose weight??

dadmonson

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
It's just going to make her feel self conscious. Trust me, women know that they are fat and attempting to trick them into becoming healthy is an effort in futility.
This post just made me burst out laughin for some reason.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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dadmonson said:
This post just made me burst out laughin for some reason.
The sh1t is funny because its true! Women are as stupid as we like to think that they are, especially about their bodies. Many will stand in a mirror and critique their bodies daily.

Tricking them is a waste of time, pointing out a "deficiency" like this has no good ending. Either they want to get fit themselves or they won't do it. Even if they try to do it for her man's benefit, the chances of her sticking with it is very low. We're talking about having a person changing their lifestyle, it's not an easy thing to do and not everyone can do it.
 

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Shiftkey said:
No one likes or wants to be fat.
Maybe so but it's easier than doing what's necessary to be fit and thin.
 
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Actually I got a WICKED good one, next time you come back from the gym tell her that while you were working this FEMALE TRAINER gave you some pointers of how to workout and did it for free! She'll be so jealous and want to investigate by following you to the gym everytime. ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
Actually I got a WICKED good one, next time you come back from the gym tell her that while you were working this FEMALE TRAINER gave you some pointers of how to workout and did it for free! She'll be so jealous and want to investigate by following you to the gym everytime. ;)

The beaner here is right. Jealousy is a wonderful motivator.
 

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you either like her the way she is, or you dont, trying to change people never ends well.:box:
 

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Some of you guys are way too pessimistic. Sure people need to be self motivated to lose weight, but sometimes all someone needs is a little push to get started.
 

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Shiftkey said:
Some of you guys are way too pessimistic. Sure people need to be self motivated to lose weight, but sometimes all someone needs is a little push to get started.
You forget that we're talking about women here (no offense ladies), they respond to such pressure differently than men. The way an average woman acts about their body image you can do more harm than good by pushing them or giving them ultimatums. Som

e women will show you a good face while they're with you. They'll work out like a manic banshee but afterward after you are gone they could inhale a pint of Häagen Dazs like their lives depended on it. Unless they choose to want to do it, any pushing will at best be short lived.
 
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