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How do i confess my love to an 18yr old.

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Assuming no itis, the best things to do in these scenarios is fuuck the living shiit out of the girl as if you're getting taken out back and shot after. She's only had a few partners so you blow her world. Take blue chips, whatever, blow her the fuuck out until you're both numb and she taps out. Then tease her for tapping out and go make some food or something like it's business as usual. That's what I've found makes young girls fall the easiest. Uninhibited objectification and being an absolute boss about it.



I don't think you're trolling, but if you want this girl as a gf all you can do is keep spending time with her and having fun, the exclusivity will manifest naturally. You'll see her desire for exclusivity written on her face and you'll know that as soon as you mention it she'll jump on you, that's when you bring it up. The fact that you made this thread is a huge red flag on your part, because it means you don't know this simple rule or are just too fvcking gaga for her to think straight. Asking us what you should do means this will most likely end in disaster unless you get your shiit together.

That you initiate her every time is telling. You should see this feedback as a reason to not be so invested, otherwise you're going to emotionally wreck yourself. Have fun with it, take the pressure off.

And the prize mentality absolutely works in real life. Guys think it's bs when in reality they've put practically no work into their mind, body, and bank account. They refuse to accept the problem is themselves, and go back to demeaning themselves and simping.

There's no secret or forced behavior. When you're crushing it you believe you're the prize and naturally act like it, because you know it and embody it. It oozes out of you in all your behavior and all the women keen enough to pick up on it come buzzing over like bees to honey.

Trying to fake abundance is ignorant and pointless. It's built brick by brick in the fortress of your mind, and it takes time, usually years.

Accept your flaws and play to your strengths, put in the time to create the conditions for success, and it's bound to happen.

Hard work puts you where the good luck finds you.

This girls a toss up. Enjoy the ride, spend time together doing fun stuff, blow her back out often, and your odds will be good. Don't drop your fuucking spaghetti and don't spill your guts out. Chill and have fun.
Spot on. I've had similar experiences in my early 30's.

It's a fun ride while it lasts. These never lasted more than six months for me unfortunately.
 

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You're 37 and you have more than 300 lays. You either know what to do or this a troll.
 

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You don't confess your love..... your not in love... your infatuated... big difference.

Infatuation gives her all the power and will turn toxic.

Next
 

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Shes down to go out tonight, gonna meet up a bit later. Im so excited to see her! :love:The plan is to hit up a nice restaurant then go to an upscale club. Not gonna confess anything yet just gonna have fun, she needs more time to fall for me.
 

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Why is it cringe tho? Everyone whose seen her in real life is like "yeah id be doing the same thing". Its only cringe if she rejects me.
I do think you are somewhat right about this. She is probably going to latch on to someone as a LTR at some point.
Guys here seem to only think in terms of one night stands, FWBs, and booty calls. But most girls ARE going to want a more permanent, or semi-permanent relationship sooner or later. If you play the "game" too strongly, you may be cutting yourself out of that position.

The problem is a guy confessing his love first is not generally a good look. Don't get me wrong, it CAN work, and it HAS worked. It's just not generally a good strategy. I would advise against it, to be clear, and focus instead on showing her a fun time. With your age difference however, she may not feel comfortable bringing it up herself, or even considering it herself for that matter. So if you want your hat in the ring, you may have to put it there. If you do, keep your expectations low and realize it could backfire.
 

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Shes down to go out tonight, gonna meet up a bit later. Im so excited to see her! :love:The plan is to hit up a nice restaurant then go to an upscale club. Not gonna confess anything yet just gonna have fun, she needs more time to fall for me.
Well I'm glad the advice didn't fall on deaf ears, good luck man!
 

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I do think you are somewhat right about this. She is probably going to latch on to someone as a LTR at some point.
Guys here seem to only think in terms of one night stands, FWBs, and booty calls. But most girls ARE going to want a more permanent, or semi-permanent relationship sooner or later.
Men compete for sex.
Women compete for relationships.
 

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I do think you are somewhat right about this. She is probably going to latch on to someone as a LTR at some point.
Guys here seem to only think in terms of one night stands, FWBs, and booty calls. But most girls ARE going to want a more permanent, or semi-permanent relationship sooner or later. If you play the "game" too strongly, you may be cutting yourself out of that position.
Yup. I don’t think the whole “Just keep banging a chick until SHE asks for a relationship” approach is a 100% rule. It can backfire sometimes.
 

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When she’s 30 you will be 50.

This is too big an age gap to be practical.

You don’t love her, you love her body (it’s all you really spoke about)

you will get bored of that in about 3 years

you’re 37 bro, wise up and be honest with yourself.

another point “confessing your love” is probably the most effective way to break up.
it’s been a few weekends.
 

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Assuming no itis, the best things to do in these scenarios is fuuck the living shiit out of the girl as if you're getting taken out back and shot after. She's only had a few partners so you blow her world. Take blue chips, whatever, blow her the fuuck out until you're both numb and she taps out. Then tease her for tapping out and go make some food or something like it's business as usual. That's what I've found makes young girls fall the easiest. Uninhibited objectification and being an absolute boss about it.



I don't think you're trolling, but if you want this girl as a gf all you can do is keep spending time with her and having fun, the exclusivity will manifest naturally. You'll see her desire for exclusivity written on her face and you'll know that as soon as you mention it she'll jump on you, that's when you bring it up. The fact that you made this thread is a huge red flag on your part, because it means you don't know this simple rule or are just too fvcking gaga for her to think straight. Asking us what you should do means this will most likely end in disaster unless you get your shiit together.

That you initiate her every time is telling. You should see this feedback as a reason to not be so invested, otherwise you're going to emotionally wreck yourself. Have fun with it, take the pressure off.

And the prize mentality absolutely works in real life. Guys think it's bs when in reality they've put practically no work into their mind, body, and bank account. They refuse to accept the problem is themselves, and go back to demeaning themselves and simping.

There's no secret or forced behavior. When you're crushing it you believe you're the prize and naturally act like it, because you know it and embody it. It oozes out of you in all your behavior and all the women keen enough to pick up on it come buzzing over like bees to honey.

Trying to fake abundance is ignorant and pointless. It's built brick by brick in the fortress of your mind, and it takes time, usually years.

Accept your flaws and play to your strengths, put in the time to create the conditions for success, and it's bound to happen.

Hard work puts you where the good luck finds you.

This girls a toss up. Enjoy the ride, spend time together doing fun stuff, blow her back out often, and your odds will be good. Don't drop your fuucking spaghetti and don't spill your guts out. Chill and have fun.

Yep pop some cialis and smoke some good weed. She will *** multiple times on top of you, doggy and any other position you like.

Avoid all that lovey dovey **** until she begs you for exclusivity.
 

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So I spent the entire weekend with her she didnt go back home until sunday and she said it was one of the best weekends shed had.
Friday we hit up a really popping club and danced all night, i was sweating like a pig. She got drunk and we left around 1am and smashed in my room all night. It was a fun night and we kept making out in the club.

Saturday we laid in bed until 3pm and went to get some lunch. I half jokingly said if we should get some LSD for the night and she said shes down so i hit up my contact and an hour later she delivered two 300 microgram squares. At night we took half a square each since were both kinda new at acid and then hit up another club. After about an hour we both said we werent feeling anything so we took the second half, so one full square each. We both started feeling the first half as soon as we took the 2nd and said oh **** were about to trip balls. The club ended up being too intense for us so we went back to my hotel and on the way we both started hallucinating and laughing our asses off. We ended up chilling in my hotel and roaming around the grounds just laughing hystericaly and tripping out on things. We were both in a really good mood and it proved to be a great bonding experience. Around 4am the acid wore off and we passed out. The next morning we were laughing at how crazy and weird the night was and thats when she said shes never gonna forget this experience.

I didnt confess anything but i think i made it abundatly clear that i would date her in a heartbeat because i would kiss her forehead, stroke her hair, hold her hand, and cuddle up with her all night. I was trying to let her know that i could fall in love with her, i even called her my little angel. I think she knows I want to fall in love so the rest is up to her i guess. But im happy the way everthing turned out and it really was a memorable weekend even for me.

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You're getting emotional over her so she has power over you. She's having fun now, so she will stay with you.

My suggestion is to game her enough so that she respects you. If you are considering putting a ring on her, then consider impregnating, but that's just a suggestion for you to think about later down the road. There are a lot of things to think about here that only a clear headed you can figure out, but you are not clear headed. Maybe smash other girls on the side so that you don't get oneitis while you see her, of course be careful doing that too.
 

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Ok guys this is coming from a 37yr old life long bachelor with over 300 lays. Ive never asked a girl to be my gf because ive never had one. But a few weeks ago i pulled the hottest girl of my life. A stunning 18yr old that looks like ana de armas, petite body with perky butt and blonde hair. Legit socal 9/10. We hung out for two weekends straight and she slept over my place, so i know the attraction is there on her end. I really like this girl but im not in love yet, but i know i can fall for her. Shes perfect in every way. Fashion is on point, acts mature yet fun, and just beautiful. So how do i let her know im not just another fvck boy and that i want something more with her? I know two weeks is kinda soon but i want to make my intentions clear sooner rather than later. I legit dont know where to start, what to say, or how to say it. My goal is to have a formal bf/gf relationship and get her to live with me.
I'm gonna help you with your oneitis and help calm it down by posting this:
As she is 18 she is far from an angel and she is going to run through the carousel of willing dvcks just like all the girls in that twitter story feed. She is far from done and she will most likely do the same to you as you get older too and she is still young...
 

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if this is the best situation ever, then don't change it.

if you're this interested in her, that's likely a reflection in part of her interest in you.

if you do what you're suggesting her image of you will change, and she might not like you anymore or she might flip you from lover to provider. that would be a shame.

enjoy, this is the stuff you hunt for, now that you have it don't screw it up.

SHE LIKES YOU JUST AS SHE SEES YOU NOW. if you change, she might not like you or will lower interest because it can not be any higher than it is right now.

keep your demons to yourself, she is your playful mate for now, not your shrink.
 
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