Well earlier today I was talking to this group of girls and no matter what I tried I just couldn't get these girls into me. Like I've gotten interests from groups before but I'm honestly starting to feel that with groups it's a hit or a miss. I tried having fun with them by teasing them, negging them, telling jokes, vibing, but nothing I do seems to get these girls interested and in the end they always seem interested in the lower value guys. Don't get me wrong they might laugh sometimes but then they attempt to blow me out after that. I come in there with a high value attitude and stuff and I go in there not really caring what they think, but in the end they're just not interested. I don't know what it is I'm doing wrong, but it's probably something with how I convey my personality and just the fact that I'm not being fun enough. So how can I improve on conveying my personality and having fun with girls?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
How do I better convey my personality to girls and overall have more fun with them?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
MooseGod
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Can't win 'em all, man. Go find another group of girls that is interested in you and BS with 'em.
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What exactly are you expecting to happen from these interactions?
bigjohnson
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You might try just thinking about them as if they were people and relate to them that way. It sounds to me like you're just really trying way to hard, making it into some sort of expedition into an alien planet or something.
It's just talk. With other people. Some of whom are female. By chance.
It's just talk. With other people. Some of whom are female. By chance.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Not really, infact I'm not even trying. I'm just doing all this stuff, being myself and these girls aren't interested. And like I said, I've gotten groups interest before but I just can't seem to get interest from particular groups of girls.bigjohnson said:You might try just thinking about them as if they were people and relate to them that way. It sounds to me like you're just really trying way to hard, making it into some sort of expedition into an alien planet or something.
It's just talk. With other people. Some of whom are female. By chance.
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Can't win em all.