Well earlier today I was talking to this group of girls and no matter what I tried I just couldn't get these girls into me. Like I've gotten interests from groups before but I'm honestly starting to feel that with groups it's a hit or a miss. I tried having fun with them by teasing them, negging them, telling jokes, vibing, but nothing I do seems to get these girls interested and in the end they always seem interested in the lower value guys. Don't get me wrong they might laugh sometimes but then they attempt to blow me out after that. I come in there with a high value attitude and stuff and I go in there not really caring what they think, but in the end they're just not interested. I don't know what it is I'm doing wrong, but it's probably something with how I convey my personality and just the fact that I'm not being fun enough. So how can I improve on conveying my personality and having fun with girls?
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How do I better convey my personality to girls and overall have more fun with them?
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Can't win 'em all, man. Go find another group of girls that is interested in you and BS with 'em.
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What exactly are you expecting to happen from these interactions?
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You might try just thinking about them as if they were people and relate to them that way. It sounds to me like you're just really trying way to hard, making it into some sort of expedition into an alien planet or something.
It's just talk. With other people. Some of whom are female. By chance.
It's just talk. With other people. Some of whom are female. By chance.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Not really, infact I'm not even trying. I'm just doing all this stuff, being myself and these girls aren't interested. And like I said, I've gotten groups interest before but I just can't seem to get interest from particular groups of girls.bigjohnson said:You might try just thinking about them as if they were people and relate to them that way. It sounds to me like you're just really trying way to hard, making it into some sort of expedition into an alien planet or something.
It's just talk. With other people. Some of whom are female. By chance.
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Can't win em all.