Well earlier today I was talking to this group of girls and no matter what I tried I just couldn't get these girls into me. Like I've gotten interests from groups before but I'm honestly starting to feel that with groups it's a hit or a miss. I tried having fun with them by teasing them, negging them, telling jokes, vibing, but nothing I do seems to get these girls interested and in the end they always seem interested in the lower value guys. Don't get me wrong they might laugh sometimes but then they attempt to blow me out after that. I come in there with a high value attitude and stuff and I go in there not really caring what they think, but in the end they're just not interested. I don't know what it is I'm doing wrong, but it's probably something with how I convey my personality and just the fact that I'm not being fun enough. So how can I improve on conveying my personality and having fun with girls?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How do I better convey my personality to girls and overall have more fun with them?
- Thread starter ElStud
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